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he left me there...that 55yr old man

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 torn2bits (original poster member #28376) posted at 12:47 AM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013

Snapdragon, the guy I was with started talking to the other man who walked up to us. He was the one who was talking to him first, about their kids in college. The two of them were talking and then I just jumped in and asked him a few questions.

The other thing is that this guy really, really lied about his age. He was waaay off by like at least 8 years.

Ya know what, I had a great time at that game! I did learn a lesson: to make sure I have my own way home.

A guy I met at a meetup event went dancing with me afterwards. He tried to kiss me on the dance floor (without asking) and I gave him a football push to the chest. None of that!

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

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Why?? ( member #18132) posted at 1:33 AM on Friday, February 22nd, 2013

ick! I am so glad you drove yourself. I never have anyone pick me up until I've fully checked them out and we've had several dates.

I wish people would be more honest and not post old photos. It's such a let down and down right lying.

Hang in there

"And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"If you want something in this life, reach out and grab it."

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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 1:58 AM on Friday, February 22nd, 2013

I say the most important part of this is "Crisis averted" Sounds like it would have ended awkwardly regardless, though he was a complete ass.

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

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 torn2bits (original poster member #28376) posted at 2:23 AM on Friday, February 22nd, 2013

I have another date this Saturday with a guy my sister set me up with. He is 58 and seems to be a gentleman so far.

I really don't feel like I want to do online dating anymore. I see the same profiles there that I did a year ago. Its ridiculous.

Me: 45/WH (SA): 49
M: 26 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce halted

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JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 1:58 AM on Wednesday, March 20th, 2013

well, at least he told you who he was on the FIRST date....imagine investing anymore time with that idiot.

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WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 10:06 PM on Thursday, March 21st, 2013

Move over, cheesy nut man!

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens

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permanentpain ( member #38312) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, March 22nd, 2013

total doosh!!! Disgusted beyond belief, but at least you had a good time at the game by yourself!!!

Me: 32 y/o, student and mom of two of the best kids in the world
Him: 33 y/o scumbag
Divorcing
Feels good to start laughing and feeling better again...

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why2008 ( member #18378) posted at 2:11 AM on Friday, March 22nd, 2013

oh my god, what a crass idiot!

I am sorry that you had such a bad date.

Me - BS - 46
Him - WS - 44
Two daughters / 10 and 7

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