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hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 9:54 PM on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013
of many SI posters. Some of them know it. Some of them I've never interacted with at all.
There are so many people here who have overcome so much. Strong men and women who have pulled it together, started over and moved on in the face of long odds and/or when they didn't think they could.
If you're feeling low, remember there are people out there who admire your strength. When you don't feel strong know that some of the littlest things you're doing show HUGE grit and determination.
SI peeps are amazing!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 11:24 PM on Wednesday, March 6th, 2013
I LIKE this post!!! I feel this way about certain people too that may never be aware. It is good to put it out there this way. LIKE IT!!!
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
ISPIFFD ( member #26367) posted at 12:33 AM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
clicking "Like" repeatedly 
I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 6:50 AM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
*yes!*
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 12:02 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
So true, hexed.
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 2:32 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
Yep.
It's by the grace of all here that I'm still surviving.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 4:22 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
WhiteWolfWinning ( member #12475) posted at 4:28 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
NoLongerWantHim ( member #19934) posted at 4:31 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
Me & the kids are having the malignancy removed.
If I went to Hogwarts, my Patronus would be my Big Sister - GWADW
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 6:41 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
now that I'm this far out, what I really like is watching the peeps who don't realize their own awesomeness, as they figure it out.
SI peeps are amazing!
I've gained so much from SI, and it's hard to put into words the impact all y'all have had on my healing and my life. 
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 6:59 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
I've got a SI intravenous right now. Helped tremendously with my first real heart ache after the divorce.
RiotGrrrl ( member #9046) posted at 9:25 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
Me too!
It's really an amazing community. Thanks
RG
Me: BS (44)
Him: WS (45)
Married: Six years, D Day 11/8/05
Divorce final: Nov 06
Two amazing sons: 16 and 14
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 10:02 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
This is a great post!
I'd really "miss" certain posters if they were gone.
The combined therapy tools that people bring to this forum have helped me more than I can express.
Thank you everyone.
PS send a pm to someone you admire or compliment them. This also helps YOUR self esteem to brighten someone's day or let them know they are appreciated. I try to do this so people know how much their input is genuinely valued.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 10:11 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
I am a big fan also and try and tell people how much I appreciate their responses and advice and 2x4's. I am sure I have missed a few Thank You!!! along the way. So here is to my SI friends. You are all so appreciated everyday. THANKS FOR BEING WHO YOU ARE!!!!!
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 11:53 PM on Thursday, March 7th, 2013
You can tell by my post count how much I've hated it here. 
I agree... SI peeps ARE amazing.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
ManBearDivorce ( member #36258) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, March 8th, 2013
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 2:47 AM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
gahurts ( member #33699) posted at 3:06 AM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
I'm a big fan of many of us on this site. Some people are so insightful and helpful. Some are big time funny and some of us are both.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
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