Very intimate talking. About our past, our fears, our triggers, what we want out of life, and especially, the type where he says things like "I am willing to do whatever it takes to make this relationship work" and "I am madly, deeply in love with you" and "I am willing to fight for you" and "I know you have a tendency to want to run, but if you run, just know I am going to be running right after you." I know he means what he is saying because his actions back it up. 100% of the time. He takes care of me, physically, emotionally, financially (as much as he can).
He makes me a priority. I know I am his world (without being smothering....he has other friends and obligations, and he takes care of those. But I am what matters the most to him.)
When he makes an error in judgment (or as he calls it, he is a bit "dense"), he fixes it. Plain and simple. He apologizes (from the heart), and then he takes whatever action he needs to in order to fix it.
I have never been more turned on by a man in my life. This one has me feeling passionate feelings I never knew I had (and I've always been a fairly passionate person). And as long as he continues to make me feel safe, loved, a priority, valued, and protected, I can't see me ever saying no to him.
Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.