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Survivor3512 (original poster member #37946) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
I went to Atlanta this weekend with one of my best girl friends. We had a great time. A lot of fun hanging out. But! Saturday night we decided to go dancing. I was a bit apprehensive- didnt know if I was ready for that. But off we go. And I'm so glad. It did wonders for my self confidence!! I had several guys ask me to dance. It was so much fun. One of them- who was just 27!!!- actually kissed me. And I let him. :) it was really pretty nice. The first person I've kissed besides xh in 19 years. It was just nice to think someone found me attractive and wanted to be around me. After Dday, my self worth plummeted and I felt ugly and unlovable. It's been getting better lately and I know I should not need others acceptance to feel good, but it DOES feel good to feel attractive to someone. So that's all! I kissed a stranger and I liked it.
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
trying_2_recover ( member #28778) posted at 7:34 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Divorced since 2007 from WH who has married OW.
PurpleBlueBella ( member #38579) posted at 7:40 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Awesome! Glad you had fun!! 
broken2 ( member #16935) posted at 8:15 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Survivor, I know exactly how you feel. It IS pretty nice isn't it!! You let yourself feel attractive and it showed. Someone took notice and the rest is history. Oh and that first kiss after soooo long. I bet you had all kinds of fireworks going on inside of you! Enjoy it! 
[This message edited by broken2 at 2:17 PM, March 11th (Monday)]
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 8:22 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
Enjoy yourself. 
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, March 11th, 2013
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
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