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Bravenewgirl (original poster member #36267) posted at 5:14 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
I am not s or d yet, but considering becoming so very soon. I just wanted to say that although I don't post in this forum, I read here ALL THE TIME. You folks are inspiring, with the amazing courage, strength and support. I feed off it daily.
So thank you. Thank you for showing me another side. Thank you for showing me that "getting to done" is possible. Thank you for grumpy cats and lower muppets.
I can do this. Right?
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:21 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
Yes you can. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 5:25 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
I will second that. There are amazing people here who will support you every step of the way. They are keeping me strong, and my head out of the oven. 
(((HUGS)))
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 5:34 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
I can do this. Right?
Are you kidding me, BNG? You not only can do this, you can kick ass and take names along the way. 
(((((BNG)))))
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 8:18 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
(Pssst... BNG hasn't heard about the SI posse, boas or bitch boots yet. )
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
lonelylost ( member #36784) posted at 8:21 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
(((Bravenewgirl)))
You are strong. This group is great, isn't it? We'll get through together. Sending strength and hugs.
Divorced Jan 2013
"Don't look back, the road is long."
- Needtobreathe
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 10:30 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
Damn straight you CAN do it! And we are all here as proof it can be done.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
*****************************
Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 10:38 PM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
suckstobeme ( member #30853) posted at 12:44 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
We've all been there and we've walked through that same fire. There is no question that you can do this. We will cheer you on, wipe your tears, join your vents, and be there with arms outstretched every step of the way, especially when you cross that finish line.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:10 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Oh yeah. You can do this.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:14 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Cheatermagnet, there are boas and bitch boots galore on Tammy Jean's Peace Train thread (I just bumped it for y'all).
The train is where the SI posse musters for forays into the land of clueless fucks to kick ass and take names.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
stillstrong ( member #36144) posted at 4:30 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Well, I guess it's inappropriate to say it's god to see you. I'm sorry you're here, but if anyone can do this, you can.
(((BNG)))
You still wearing your Scottish jammies?
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 6:11 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
You've SOOOOO got this honey.
Paddling up shit creek without a paddle is waaaaay harder than getting out of the damn boat and swimming to freedom.
In shit creek the stench become unbearable after a while and you're covered in shit anyway so you may as well swim to freedom.
Sure there's some nasty shit to swim through but at least you're not stuck in shit creek forever.
((BNG))
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 9:51 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
you can so do this :) Welcome.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 4:52 PM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Yes; we've got your back. Just be sure to get good legal advice. We can be supportive as hell, but nothing replaces a good shark lawyer.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 12:01 AM on Sunday, April 14th, 2013
We've all been there and we've walked through that same fire. There is no question that you can do this. We will cheer you on, wipe your tears, join your vents, and be there with arms outstretched every step of the way, especially when you cross that finish line.
I wish this were in the forum description!!!! Exactly how I felt I was treated the entire time I was going through the worst of it. I count the people in the forum among my dearest dearest friends.
With that HOW can you NOT make it???
(((hugs)))
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
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