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AFrayedKnot (original poster member #36622) posted at 12:36 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Last June we put together a list of questions to inventory our relationship on a daily basis. They have really helped us develop more intimacy and communicate our need and wants.
The list started with about 12 questions and took an hour and a half to do. Over then past year we have drop questions added new ones and reworded some to be more productive. Last night we revised them again. Here is what we have come up with:
1. What did I do today to help me heal and grow?
2. What feelings did I experience today? And why?
3. How did I see you Honor me today?
How did you Honor me that I did not see?
How could you have Honored me?
4. What am I grateful for today?
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 6:16 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Those are terrific questions. I love that you both revamp them as needed. Wonderful communication. 
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 10:29 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Wow! Part me wants to adopt those questions for us, and part of me sees them as a whole lot of work.... 
Looks like really good stuff, Chicho.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 10:35 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013
Excellent stuff there Chicho
Knowing ( member #37044) posted at 1:37 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
Interesting daily inventory you have going there.
Our MC gave us one daily question: "what do I appreciate about my spouse today?"
BW, R last 4 years of marriage out of 15... FINALLY, HAPPILY DIVORCING!
We are in R.
RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 4:54 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013
That's a great idea. Thank you for sharing.
ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
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