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Reconciliation :
Met with IC

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 catlover50 (original poster member #37154) posted at 9:50 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

So. Met with my IC for the first time since August; told her the whole sorry tale. She just nodded sagely. Instead of telling me I was a doormat, she said I was showing incredible strength and gave me insights I to CSA that helped a lot.

She said the people who sent that anonymous letter 7 months ago expected I would run screaming and I was showing them. Cry, scream, then get to work.

Why did I wait so long?

Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 10:24 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

Why did I wait so long?

Well, you're there now!

I hope you continue to get what you need from it.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 10:28 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

Your IC is right - you are showing amazing strength.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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DixieD ( member #33457) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, May 8th, 2013

^^^ I'll second that

Growing forward

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