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I don't like Dobson at all either but I think it would be best to keep it on why Pat Robertson, as an individual, is a big rotten cactus cock for what he said.

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I agree. Sorry. I didn't want them all lumped together, but ur right. I got off topic.

I'm sick of hearing how the non-cheater didn't do enough; they are to blame, they should do whatever to fix things...blah blah.

Yep, sounds like a lot of MC/MC types as well. I'm convinced there are plenty of MC/MC types (book sellers) who are nothing but "sellavangelists". They put forth their own phoney religion of placing blame on the crushed, desperate BS, so more hours get billed, more books sold by inculcating the belief that the BS has an equal, or even more than equal share of the blame for the WS A, and how they can be "fixed".

"The reconciliation industrial complex", a brilliant phrase I read elsewhere on the net, absolutely perfectly distills, and describes my thoughts above, and IMO and experience is absolutely true, however disturbing.

I'm just happy to know that men cheating on their wives doesn't cause hurricanes or terrorist attacks or anything like that.

I'm just happy to know that men cheating on their wives doesn't cause hurricanes or terrorist attacks or anything like that.

It's historical fact that only cheating women cause natural disasters. A Punic vagina is known to be the cause of the 396 BCE eruption of Mt. Etna, ultimately preventing Carthage from marching on Syracuse. Thus the etymological origin of the word Punitive comes from combining Punic, Vagina and Etna.

First of all, in the Bible, adultery is right up there with "thou shalt not kill". Because it can be the death of the family.

So, being a spiritual leader, why is he making an excuse for it. Because he wants to do it himself.

Second of all, many women have as strong of a sex drive as most men. We all have to learn to control it. Men are not roosters ( if you have ever watched a rooster in a henyard, jumping on top of one hen after another.) Why is PR giving men special permission to wander?

[This message edited by mchercheur at 11:02 AM, May 17th (Friday)]

Being the kind of wife Pat Robertson advises is no guarantee. I watched a crime show yesterday about a woman who gave classes at her chruch on how to be a perfect submissive wife and she was murdered by her husband's mistress.

I was raised to be a dutiful submissive wife. I doted on my XH- did the cooking and cleaning, ironed his shirts, would start work early so I could be home in time to make dinner and mix him a drink before he came home, had LOTS of sex- always kept it interesting, etc. He still cheated. And he still blamed me for it.

Some people are just assholes.

He's a shit stirring ass. Ican't watch him speak, his voice sounds fake to me.

I posted a thread about this in Wayward forum, but I can't believe this crap.

From someone who owns his s#!t, I am insulted at the way this man was talking.

Even if he were on Tuscon Public Access, it wouldn't make what he was saying any more valid. But, he's on freaking national media.

It makes me even more sad for the person who was actually imploring him for advice. To be treated in such a way is a disgrace. If we have enough political clout to affect ABC's series about Mistresses, then I think we need to throw ourselves into the 7-Dunder Club.

Seriously, I drove to work primed to hit something.

It's historical fact that only cheating women cause natural disasters. A Punic vagina is known to be the cause of the 396 BCE eruption of Mt. Etna, ultimately preventing Carthage from marching on Syracuse. Thus the etymological origin of the word Punitive comes from combining Punic, Vagina and Etna

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Thank you, that is hysterical !!!!!

And yes Pat Robertson is an idiot

WHAT IN THE HELL?!?!?! I can't believe this. This make me irate. I looked up the article to read it for myself and...I am shaking my head, just besides myself. I am livid. I looked up the quote.

"Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit...What you want to do is make a home so wonderful that he doesn't want to wander".

My wife went into that hotel room. She got pregnant. She did. How is it my responsibility to make sure that does not happen?

My bishop (LDS congregational leader) said, "Linus, if there was a problem with you and the house, neglect, abuse, being stupid, instead of going out to have sex, she should have come to me or any other local leaders and say 'my husband is not doing his job or not paying attention to me or whatever'. She handle the situation the wrong way. This is not your fault. SHE made the choices. She did not do the right thing. The marriage covenant is to God, not you. So, when she has sex outside of marriage, it is upon her head, not yours. It is her fault."

This man, Robertson, should be booted off of television, if not forced, than his ratings should cancel him off. This mentality that it is the BS's fault just...it makes no sense, except the the WS. Which makes me wonder about how many notches or babies he has that will surface later or after his death...

I love my church, and my religion. I hope people find something out there for them for their spiritual life. On the flip side, I can understand why people hate organized religion when Bozos like this one surfaces. AARRGGHH!!!

You're an interesting species, an interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other. - Contact

[This message edited by Linus1968 at 6:39 AM, May 21st (Tuesday)]