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catlover50 (original poster member #37154) posted at 6:41 PM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
Yesterday my friend told me that she discovered that her H had been looking at ads on Craigs List for men seeking women, etc. He said he was bored and would never have answered an ad. He said he would stop if it made her uncomfortable and she said she wanted him to stop because he wanted to stop.
I told her that this is a boundary issue and she had every right to ask him not to do it. That he could be lying, but at the least it is the start of a slippery slope. And that this is an opening for some deep discussions.
She went home and implemented all.
Thanks SI!
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:41 AM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
I'm glad your friend has you to lean on and give support.
catlover50 (original poster member #37154) posted at 1:43 AM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
Dday -9/23/2012
Reconciled
girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 1:55 AM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
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