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When I found out that my FWH found the whores on AFF and that the main one blogged, I created a profile. This was me:

I've seen more junk than a urologist not to mention the gyno shots.

I assumed there were sites for "escorts" but I had no idea that there were so many deviates out there who takes a pix of their best side by sitting on their camera.

It really is a sad, sick world we live in.

I was told by the councilor that the internet is such an issue is relationships these days.

I know exactly when this started with my WH. He started texting me pics of his junk and then suddenly it stopped. It is around the same time I gave him the tablet which really does prove that no good deed goes unpunished.

I like my husbands body - all of it but I don't need photos of it. He has tried to get me to send him junk pics but I just straight out tell him It is not gonna happen. OK maybe a few nipple pics but never a full body or face. ONLY small nipple. Nothing identifiable.

When he did send them, I just delete them. Kind of makes me laugh.

Personally its just exhibitionism, Gross.

I checked Craigslist as part of my investigation on WH and was shocked by the number of junk pictures on there. It made me wonder if the posters are mentally stable putting that information out there for the world to see.

I'd never been on craigslist so literally read this post and had a look-

Bloody. Hell.

Am I really 28 or 85??! Are these people real???

*shudder*

I can't stand it. I swear I would never send pics like that. I cannot get my WH phone, but I bet his skank OW has sent pics to remember her by.

No self respect AT all. I would die before I sent a pic like that to anyone. I would not even feel comfortable sending it to my husband much less some co-worker or someone on AFF. Well in the first place I would not be on one of those sites, but still. The first time some guy sent me a pic of his junk, he would be blocked and deleted - I swear.

When the internet first started I made the comment that it would be the downfall of society as we know it and sadly that is true.

[This message edited by Jada52 at 6:07 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)]

I think it's creepy, too. It was eye-opening when discoveries were made about Perv, in learning how very, very different we truly were...and only he knew it.

There is a story in our area that makes me snicker. I heard it before all the drama came to us, but now I have very mixed reactions to it. I'll try to write it not too long. It's about the Karma Bus making a pick up, as well.

There was this couple who I believe were married. They had a house and kids and all like we dream of. Stuff went on and over time the M ended. One of the spouses had an A, I think the H.

So he starts a new relationship and has a GF for a while and when he goes to visit the kids and whatever, for some reason the ExW lets him spend nights at the house.

At some point, EXH leaves mobile phone within his belongings and EXW "finds" it. She digs in and pokes around and finds pictures like on this thread started by Limbo. She gets irate (though they aren't "together" anymore, this stuck out for me) and she chooses, for whatever reason, to take pictures of her own self and send them to her BF and I think she was sending them to ExH.

But you know what?

The story has it that a call from the elementary school came with her kids crying at the principal's office because low and behold, on one of DD's mobile phones are neked photos! And it's the mom's number!, that he recognizes.

There is one little bit to note, as well.

The mom who sent the photos? A policewoman.

Defiled: thank you for your honesty. It is something I thought of myself, but I wasn't sure if I was being paranoid or not.

I know for a FACT that if I ask for transparency, he'll bitch about my stuff being locked. It's only my iPod so I can come on this site, and my phone so I can bitch to my girlfriends, but I really don't see him giving it if I don't.

Livinginlimbo I did the same. I might have to boil my iPad.

I'd never been on craigslist so literally read this post and had a look-

Bloody. Hell.

Am I really 28 or 85??! Are these people real???

*shudder*

Yeah, the past 2 years are when my mental cherry got popped in regards to how low the internet has sunk. I honestly had no idea. No idea. When I thought of looking for STBX on Craigslist I went to the men seeking women site & clicked on an ad that had a man who was STBX's age. I was expecting a picture of the man's face.

Yeah, it was a head shot, just not the head I was expecting.

Then I went on a magical mystery tour of AFF, AM, and some other place (I can't remember, it's all so horrifying). I'm disgusted at how low things have sunk in regards to online dating.

I felt like such a naive fool. I think at this point, when I include STBX's personal porn on his computer & what I've found here in the house, that I've seen it all. Short of animals, that is. Other than that, I think I've seen it all now.

That whole website is just weird though- sending pics is not my cup of tea but never really judged people sending them to partners- craigslist is just weird- "husband leaves at 6:30 need a mornng screw South London area" - that's my neck of the woods- These people must walk amongst us!! I've been showing people at work this morning! I'm pleased most looked shocked

Purplebirch, bitch to your girls on the phone, not through text, and delete browser history after visiting this site. If these are the only two things you can give him transparency. Then demand the same from him. There's no R otherwise

My husband and i would send pictures and videos to each other while he was away on business trips.