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INFP, very strong preferences, describes me perfectly.

Heart tests as an ISTJ (EXCEPTIONALLY rare for women - less than 1% of all ISTJs are women),

I last tested as an ENFP (fairly rare for men).

I am an ISTJ too. Is it really that rare for women?

http://www.personalitypage.com/ISTJ.html

That description couldn't be any more spot on.... amazing.

the only thing on there that isn't me is that my home isn't "immaculately maintained"

Sadly, it reflects well how hard I find it to relate to others sometimes - especially in the workplace. Picking up on emotional cues isn't my strong suit!

http://www.personalitypage.com/html/ENTJ_rel.html

I sound like a bit of a psycho but, honestly- it's probs spot on!!

I'm a Rational. I can pick up on the emotional cues; I just don't react to them.

We read Florence Littauer's "Personality Plus" years ago and found it spot on for MrPip and me. It is probably similar, but very easy to understand - and a fun read, too.

Her personality categories are Sanguine, Choleric, Phlegmatic, and Melancholy (based on Hippocrates). eta also that people have varying degrees of all of these traits, not just pigeon-holed into one.

eta: the thing we liked the most is that not only does it talk about your personality, but how to relate to others. It has been as valuable to how MrPip and I relate to each other as "Five Love Languages" - and that's saying a lot!

[This message edited by PippaPeach6 at 1:32 PM, May 24th (Friday)]

ESFJ

Extravert(44%) Sensing(38%) Feeling(25%) Judging(50%)

•You have moderate preference of Extraversion over Introversion (44%)

•You have moderate preference of Sensing over Intuition (38%)

•You have moderate preference of Feeling over Thinking (25%)

•You have moderate preference of Judging over Perceiving (50%)

The color one is just them being cool and doing it in 3D.

Meyers-Briggs makes a lot of sense, but I recommend Taibi Kahler's 'process communication' theory, because it's backed up by tens of thousands of data points. He developed his theory by microanalyzing video tape of real human beings communicating and thousands of surveys - very solid research.

INTJ here, and I married one as well.

We have a quiet, logical household.

INTJ according to the internet test.

Introvert(67%) iNtuitive(38%) Thinking(12%) Judging(33%)

ENFJ here... way different than when I was with ex-asshat or XSO.

Interesting.

I couldn't find any free tests for the color one on a cursory search, but here is some info on it: https://www.insights.com/564/insights-discovery.html

My department did it, and it sounds like a lot of other companies do, too.

Thanks phmh- I'll have a look

I'd never heard of them until recently- it's definitely interesting.

I fit mine 99%

This is my scoring:

INTJ

Introvert (89%) iNtuitive (62%) Thinking (62%) Judging (56%)

You have a strong preference of Introversion over Extroversion (89%)

You have distinctive preference of Intuition over Sensing (62%)

You have a distinctive preference of Thinking over Feeling (62%)

You have a modest preference of Judging over Perceiving (56%)

INFJ here with just a tad on the side of introversion. I don't think it's definitive, though, because it's either or. A 1-10 scale might be more informative.

I'm INTJ, too.

Introvert(61%) iNtuitive(62%) Thinking(1%) Judging(1%)

You have distinctive preference of Introversion over Extraversion (61%)

You have distinctive preference of Intuition over Sensing (62%)

You have marginal or no preference of Thinking over Feeling (1%)

You have marginal or no preference of Judging over Perceiving (1%)

sad & cayc - I'm with you two.

move over and make room on the couch for me, will ya?

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ISTJ

Introvert 48%

Sensing 38%

Thinking 12%

Judging 67%