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The Book Club :
"Smart Girls Marry Money..."

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 his_loss (original poster member #30423) posted at 5:40 PM on Monday, January 31st, 2011

by Elizabeth Ford and Daniela Drake.

I happened to come across this book the other day while perusing the relationship section at the library. I figured why not? it looks like an easy read that I can look at while I'm in the bathtub.

I'm about halfway through the book, taking it with a grain of salt. Some of the info./advice is very practical while some of it seems contradictory.

Has anyone else read this?

Logic + reality = the path to freedom.

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OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, January 31st, 2011

Is this a book about how to become a trophy wife?

BH, now divorced

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wannabenormal ( member #19772) posted at 7:46 PM on Monday, January 31st, 2011

I hope so! I need to get my ass in gear!



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 his_loss (original poster member #30423) posted at 5:54 PM on Tuesday, February 1st, 2011

Well, in a nutshell...yes. Like I said, some good practical information, some not so good. Interesting though. I'm always fascinated with relationship dynamics and how things work.

Logic + reality = the path to freedom.

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heartnotwhole ( member #29545) posted at 3:53 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011

I think MOW must have read this one! She didn't get to marry WH but she did get thousands of $$$$ spent on her.

Me: BS (47) Him: WS(51) MW: (41) employee of WS D-day: 1/2010
3 kids (18,17,14) Married 21 years

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ladyvorkosigan ( member #8283) posted at 4:04 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011

But wise women make their own.

It nagged him, in particular, that none of the girls he’d known so far had given him a sense of unalloyed triumph.

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cautiousoptimist ( member #24222) posted at 5:14 PM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011

yes, ladyv! I'm sorry but I want and need the powwaaahhh!

Me: BW, 43
Him: FWH, 50, alcoholic/drug addict in rehab, staying sober
D-day:4/30/09
Marriage 11 years
In R, doing our best
I will have it even so.

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story to tell ( member #30200) posted at 3:57 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011

Well, not having read the book, if the message therein is consistent with the pessimistic title, I would have to say that I think smart girls study hard, work hard, and become lawyers, doctors, engineers, politicians, social workers, etc. and don't consider the monetary wealth of their partners, but instead the goodness inside their hearts.

ME: BS, 46
Her: WW, 42
Married 14 years
2 young girls
EA 10/14/10-11/03/10
PA 10/22/10-11/03/10
DDay 11/04/10

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 3:12 AM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

I have avoided commenting on this thread for a long time. Doesn't the title of this book sound a little too close to advocating prostitution?

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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