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User Topic: do downloaded self help books work?
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, April 7th (Thursday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi everyone. I am taking various approaches to resolving the problem of my WH A. I am about to out in play some of the 180 techniques for myself as well as to try and get him to go NC, I am also gathering evidence just in case he is still in some kind of A as I am scared it may still be going on and that will change what we need to do next. As well as that I am looking to fix some of our exsiting problems and some of the problems caused by the A. Does anyone know if any of the programmes available for download are any good please and are there any recommendations? I have specifically been pointed towards Dr Gunzberg and his how to rebuild honesty amongst other ones of his but they are quite pricey and I don't want to download them if they don't work? If anyone else is looking for downloaded items, I do have some which offer insisghts into what WS should be following an affair and other things I would be happy to share if anyone thinks they will help them. Thanks very much....x


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Dd1 OW1 6/7/2012 - 9 mnths pa/ea. Dd2 OW1 13/8/2010. Dd3 OW1 10/10, ons and ongoing ea.
Dd4 05/11 OW2 - EA/poss PA, plus other poss ONSs,other dodgy txts.
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Posts: 663 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: united kingdom
4kidscheatinghub
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Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, April 8th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

About to sink my teeth into gunzburg so I'll let u know...good couple to start with is getting past the affair and the monogamy myth oh and my husbands affair was best thing that ever happened to me was GREAT!


Me-34years old
husband (cheater)-39
4 amazing kids
http://www.ihatehimihatehimnot.wordpress.com
Boy-12
Girl-age 10
Boy/girl twins age 6
AND IT STILL WASN'T ENOUGH!
D-DAY-2/14/11
in counseling constantly but pain is excrutiating. He wants

Posts: 316 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: knoxville, tn
aesir
♂ 17210
Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, April 8th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would suggest saving your money for now. If these books are meant for recovering after the affair, you can't really benefit from them while the affair is going on. It takes two, and only two, to R. If you are still trying to get him to go NC, then he is still in the A.


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Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
4kidscheatinghub
♀ 31203
Member # 31203
Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, April 8th (Friday), 2011View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh yea oops my H is totally in R mode and very remorseful....so programs like this do seem to be helping a tad.


Me-34years old
husband (cheater)-39
4 amazing kids
http://www.ihatehimihatehimnot.wordpress.com
Boy-12
Girl-age 10
Boy/girl twins age 6
AND IT STILL WASN'T ENOUGH!
D-DAY-2/14/11
in counseling constantly but pain is excrutiating. He wants

Posts: 316 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: knoxville, tn
Topic Posts: 4

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