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User Topic: Is it a bad sign when.....
♀ 37190
Member # 37190
Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You read that a woman from your TINY, TINY town was arrested for shooting her cheating WH and you laugh OUTLOUD?!?!? Me thinks I may have some residual anger? I *KNOW* how bad this is. I swear I do. But damn - I couldn't help it.

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016

Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

Posts: 772 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: Out of the ashes
♀ 36474
Member # 36474
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. I get like that.

I would be thinking "Sucks to be him..."and snickering.

Sometimes I'm not bitter and hateful.


Scorched earth-Like Peter the Great, he burns up his own territory in order to gain the upper hand while his own people suffer.

I don't need you to be happy. I just need you to leave me alone when I am.

Posts: 449 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 39387
Member # 39387
Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

lol I love this topic because I thought I was the only one who found stories like that funny.
A man here in town put all of his WW things out in the yard and set them on fire. I laughed because honestly I was about ready to do that very same thing. If it wasn't for my kids and the thought of jail I probably would have followed through with it.

Ugh! Sometimes reality sucks.
BS (me) 31
WH (him) 33
OW - married Bar Whore Rig Rat
Married 14 years
3 amazing kids
DDay-3/03/2013 TT.The whole truth came out(hopefully) 06/09/2013
Currently on the roller coaster of R.

Posts: 48 | Registered: May 2013
♀ 34823
Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't laugh about someone getting shot. I can and do mutter about these types of stories under my breath, but I don't see the 'funny' in it. Too much bad fall-out from this type of violence.

The ones that make me die laughing are the ones where the BS has the *my spouse cheated* garage sale...and sells all the WS's shit. Or throws it all out the window into the front yard....

I read a story on here a while back from a BS that threw a bunch of stuff into the yard from an upstairs window. I think there was even some furniture that went out that window. Now THAT was funny!

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

Posts: 9187 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For an instant a story like that will make me get a twinge of YESSS but then I think about kids with one parent gone and the other in prison. I think its funny when 2 ws finally get to be with each other and realize how
miserable they make each other...especially when they are stuck together wondering if the other is cheating.
Been with him over half my life
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank

Posts: 5738 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
♀ 33338
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not gonna lie... Every time I read a headline of a traffic fatality in Whoreible's town, I perk up with interest until the details rule her out.

And I have to t/j to say I think it's funny as hell that my phone recognizes Whoreible as a word now.

End t/j

Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 3963 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
♀ 36976
Member # 36976
Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, I can't laugh about a cheating WH getting shot either...I worry too much about the repercussions the poor BS will have to face. Not fair.

Posts: 870 | Registered: Sep 2012
♀ 39676
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand the feelings that cause the laughter, although the repercussions of the behavior are not funny. My heroes have always been perceived victims who knew how to settle the score - with style - and walk or ride off into the sunset.

Me: BS (50's, but No One Would Know)
Him: STBWXH - PA/CA/NPD Serial Cheater (50's going on 12)
D-Day: Every Day?
4 Outstanding Offspring

Tragedy in life normally comes with betrayal and compromise . . .

Posts: 12 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 36599
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I recently saw a story online where a BS threw the OW over a 20 ft cliff while her WH was walking with OW. It was caught on a camera and looked terrifying. The WH ran away and didn't try to stop the BS. (A real winner there) The OW got up and ran off. No idea what happened to any of them in the long run.
I understand the feelings but I've never wanted to hurt any of them myself. I did kind of hope for a bit that the OW would not know she had the HPV she gave me and get cervical cancer. Not my finest hour.

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken

There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.

Posts: 468 | Registered: Aug 2012
♀ 35593
Member # 35593
Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In our small town a doctors wife found out about an A her H was having. She went to his office and wrote "Dr. H is f^*king nurse ______ in the Bahamas" on the large white board by the nurses station in permanent ink. On the way home she put whole shrimp in his car parked in the hot summer sun at the airport where he kept his plane. She then went home, sold all of his possessions, including his prized golf clubs, to a junker who put them in the local flea market. When Dr. came home 5 days later, she and the 3 kids had gone on an impromptu vacation to the Cayman Islands with most of their bank accounts.

Needless to say, there was a nasty divorce. The nurse's husband beat the crap out of him and he had to move his practice. Did I mention he was an OB/Gyn?

Me 50's
WH 50's
Married 30+ years
2 young adult children
OW single 20 years younger
Together trying to R

Freedom's just another word for nothin' left to lose

Posts: 3382 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
♂ 17210
Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 12:03 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no, not a shrimp story.
I know doctors sometimes buy cars that cost as much as a house, but I didn't know of any that included curtain rods.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

Posts: 14924 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Winnipeg
♀ 35862
Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:14 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aesir!.....I was thinking the SAME

That's one trick I've got stored in my memory bank.

Me: BS H: WS
4 kids
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 955 | Registered: Jun 2012
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