OMG...this is my worst fear. In fact, I think it is where I am at this time. (Although my husband has not had the turn around to want to deal with things.)
I try to stay unconnected to decrease the pain - and it works. But what do I have? Even less of a relationship.
I have wondered if you feel no differently after they 'finally' start to do the work, "Will it come in time?"
My guess is that for some it will and for some it won't.
Either way, it is an odd situation to be in, right???"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy