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Lost my kitty today

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 inhishands55 (original poster member #9454) posted at 5:18 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I had to put my kitty with breast cancer down today...She hadn't eaten since Tuesday and her white count had went from 87000 to 107000...The fluid was building up around her heart and lungs and was full of cancer cells..

She had her first surgery for breast cancer last September and then again in January..She was only 11..She purred to the end..She didn't suffer..That was what was important to me...I lost one more furbaby...The second one in 9 months...

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lostworld ( member #19197) posted at 5:42 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I'm so sorry; it hurts so much. I'm glad you can find a little comfort that she didn't suffer. (((inhishands55)))

Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married Over 30 years w/ grown kids
Dday 1: 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 5:44 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

So sorry to hear of this.

Always so hard to know what to do and when with our beloved pets.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 6:15 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

(((inhishands55)))

I'm so sorry.

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:29 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I'm so sorry. So very sorry. ((((HUGS)))) If there is a kitty afterlife, perhaps some of my kitties will welcome your girl & show her the best spots.

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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 inhishands55 (original poster member #9454) posted at 6:38 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I believe there is a place for our precious kitties...I told my little girl to go and find her brothers who had went before her...Gave her lots of hugs and kisses and tears before she left...She had always give me sugar on the forehead and would try and nip at my nose to give me love kisses too..

Thanks for all the hugs and wonderful thoughts..I will greatly miss my precious little girl..

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:51 AM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I'm so sorry for the loss of your kitty.

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 12:54 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

((((inhishands)))) I'm so sorry.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:28 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

(((inhishands)))

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 8:52 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

((BIGHUGZ)) I know how hard this is! I am so sorry!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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tryinghard2013 ( member #37981) posted at 8:56 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

I'm so sorry our furrier babies give us so much love I too believe there is a Kitty heaven

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 9:16 PM on Friday, August 30th, 2013

(((((inhishands)))))

Wishing you peace.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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jrc1963 ( member #26531) posted at 12:56 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013

(((inhishands55)))

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious kitty.

Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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toonces ( member #25949) posted at 4:41 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013

sorry for your loss.

Just a couple of weeks ago, we lost one of our 4 cats. Even though we still have 3 left, the house feels "empty".

We still have the sister of the one that died, so we see a little of our former cat in her.

Me - BS
Her - WS
affair length - 6 months with OM
married since 7/92
d-day 4/2002

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 inhishands55 (original poster member #9454) posted at 5:02 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013

My other little girl, who stayed in the house with my cancer kitty is missing her sister really bad..Before she died Yzma taught the other kitty to sleep on my pillow above my head..The other kitty, Flaming Jane is now trying to lay all over me and seeking comfort by being close to me..I still have 3 tom kitties and now only 1 girl...They are so individual and have such different personalities....

I have had several good cries today over my Yzma being gone...I will miss that little girl for a long time...

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click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:34 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013

(((inish))))

Sorry for your loss.

Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?

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