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Best Heartbreak/Infidelity songs!

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 sleepless34 (original poster member #40274) posted at 11:05 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Okay, I have been looking for songs that sum up how I am feeling.

The best one so far is

Alanis Morisette- You ought to know

So good!

Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

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still2suspicious ( member #31722) posted at 11:11 PM on Thursday, September 12th, 2013

Blake Shelton - I'm Sorry

It's from the BS side. Absolutely love it!!

Me: BSHim: WHDDay: LTEA Every storm runs out of rain - Gary Allen
D final 2/23

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 12:05 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Joey + Rory Cheater, Cheater I would listen to this song when I was feeling angry.

http://www.cmt.com/videos/joey-rory/266100/cheater-cheater.jhtml

Christina Perri's Jar of Hearts I would listen to this and cry my eyes out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oRx8M4NwJY

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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rescuedog ( new member #39171) posted at 12:11 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Nicole Scherzinger -

Don't Hold Your Breath

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KELSQEnoD8

The more I learn about people, the more I like my dog. - Mark Twain

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movingbackwards ( member #40612) posted at 2:14 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Oh Henry - The civil wars

Two Black Cadillacs - Carrie Underwood (no I'm not homicidal... But a very good rage song )

You can crawl back home, say you were wrong
Stand out in the yard and cry all night long
Go ahead and water the lawn
My give a damn's busted!

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Aussiescot ( member #39265) posted at 7:24 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

This song is geared for the double betrayal

Matt Corby, Brother, his voice alone brings tears but at least he seemed to have learnt a valuable lesson

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tSL9wPHFSts&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DtSL9wPHFSts

BS
4 DD's
DD April 2012 with a 'friend' of mine!
DD2 March 2014 prostitute! Unsure how many, told there was 1.......
Consistent porn
Done! 21.4.2015 took a while for it to sink in that this boy will never grow/up. Self absorbed POS!

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 7:50 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Victim of Changes -- Judas Priest

when really angry

Life In Black -- Fight

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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bigskyblues ( member #36759) posted at 8:56 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

I am a country classic fan Don Gibson-Someday You'll Call My Name pretty well sum's it up for me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ntc2FyGCAt8

BH 50s
xWW 50s

Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012

4 kids all adults.

Married 22+ years.

I have moved on and life is good!

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nomistakeaboutit ( member #36857) posted at 10:18 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

You've Changed. -- Eva Cassidy

Tennessee Waltz. -- Eva Cassidy

Dreams to Remember -- Don Rich

Me: BH 65.........Her: WW 55
DD: 15.......DS: 12. (5 and 2 on DDay)
Married for six years.
DDay: 12-25-11 Divorced: 7-15-12
...................................

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swizzlestick03 ( member #30102) posted at 10:53 AM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Heartbreak Warfare--John Mayer

Bed of Roses--Bon Jovi

Break Even--The Script

Exit Wounds--The Script

Reason to Believe--Rod Stewart

My Heart Can't Tell You No-- Rod Stewart/Sara Evans

What I did know then -- Toby Keith

Me: BW-36
Him: WS-35
D-Day #1: 16 August 2010
D-Day #2: 16 January 2011
One smallish kiddo.

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WhiteCarrera ( member #29126) posted at 2:53 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Has your husband or wife ever gotten mad at you for your reaction to their affair? "Effect and Cause" by the White Stripes is the perfect song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYLuHUlxRoo

Married 13 years @ D-Day in 2009. Still hanging in there (maybe by a thread sometimes)

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olwen ( member #39759) posted at 4:10 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

No doubt - don't speak

Pink - bent not broken

Extreme - more than words.

beautiful song but it's the lyric - what would you do if my heart was torn in two? more than words to show me how you feel that your love for me is real

Listen to this lot and need picking up from the floor, break my heart.

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bitterbetrayal ( member #26326) posted at 4:10 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Gollum's Song from Lord of the Rings http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zkXbzffVl44

Where once was light

Now darkness falls

Where once was love

Love is no more

Don't say goodbye

Don't say I didn't try

These tears we cry

Are falling rain

For all the lies you told us

The hurt, the blame!

And we will weep to be so alone

We are lost

We can never go home

So in the end

I'll be what I will be

No loyal friend

Was ever there for me

Now we say goodbye

We say you didn't try

These tears you cry

Have come too late

Take back the lies

The hurt, the blame!

And you will weep

When you face the end alone

You are lost

You can never go home

You are lost

You can never go home

Me. BS 52 at the time
Him.WS 52 at the time and a priest!
D-DAY 12/07/09.
Married 25 years at the time.
Two children 20 and 22 at the time.

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 sleepless34 (original poster member #40274) posted at 5:11 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Okay, I found some more:

The SMiths: I know it's over

Etta James: I'd Rather go blind

BTW- I watched the white stripes "Effect and Cause" LOVE IT and the John Mayer Heartbreak...go good.

Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

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ontheslope ( member #40574) posted at 5:28 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Lyin' Eyes: The eagles

And I'll second 'You ought to know'... great song. It is from a woman's perspective, but I can still listen to it and just change the sex in my head to make it from a guy's perspective (sort of).

Me: BH, 40, separated
Her: STBXWW, 41
Two girls 12 & 14
Married 12 years
Dday: July, 2009

She wants answers... I'm still trying to figure out what the questions are.

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Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 5:45 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Long Black Veil, Lefty Frizzel originally; covered by Nick Cave, Johnny Cash & others

Waylon Jennings: Good Hearted Woman

Johnny Cash: Cry, cry, cry

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-MGnIdwZl-8

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long

Now:-----> Everything is as it should be

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trudi42 ( new member #40608) posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

DONE - The Band Perry

Me: BW (41)
Him: WH (42)
D Day: 22/07/13
Separated - WH moved out JAN14 to some grass that is definitely not greener :)

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StillGoing ( member #28571) posted at 5:50 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Cee Lo Green's FUCK YOU always makes me lol.

http://youtu.be/pc0mxOXbWIU

[This message edited by StillGoing at 11:50 AM, September 13th (Friday)]

Tempus Fuckit.

- Ricky

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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 6:02 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

Who knew...pink

Stupid boy...Keith urban

Forgive...Rebecca Lynn Howard

I posted lyrics to the 3rd song on SI last month...the words are so heartfelt. I know this happened to the singer or writer.

Leave the pieces...the wreckers

I'm not ready to play nice (I think that's the name)....Dixie chicks.

I think this song is about the big controversy they went thru a few yrs back when the made a comment that caused an uproar but a lot of the words are similar to how I feel about ws.

This ones an oldie but omg so fitting

Til I can make it on my own by Tammy Wynette.

[This message edited by Ostrich80 at 12:03 PM, September 13th (Friday)]

BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

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Vulcanized ( member #33523) posted at 6:12 PM on Friday, September 13th, 2013

How the shit did I forget this one?????

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9J7XE-ctMU

George & Tammy classic!

Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long

Now:-----> Everything is as it should be

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