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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 5:42 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

Well i just identified why am doing so well for the past few months (yes i have been depressed etc)

Find my iphone app. Literally been keeping me sane. WH has updated his phone to IS07. Now this is the tricky part. Find my iphone app has been disabled. WH not reply to my text.

Am going >INSANE<

I know wh may be really busy today so okay fair enough but...

DID HE DISABLE IT? or did IS07 DISABLE IT?

Also he came home from work really sad last night. He wouldn't tell me why. He just said he didn't want to discuss it. Brought it up this morning. NADA

He said no it's not bad thoughts or girls etc

Am wondering if it's family? He apparently discussed with his friend about how hard it is in their line of work being good with quality time etc.

He has been in a really good/ loving mood recently I am not sure what brought that on. I hate to say it... but is that indicative of anything???

I don't know am freaking

Have felt like WH and I have been rugsweeping for a long time. We don't really discuss what happened except me saying I want him to be honest and I will always be there for him unless he cheats on me again.

UGHHHH

[This message edited by lauren123 at 11:46 PM, September 23rd (Monday)]

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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aesir ( member #17210) posted at 8:22 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

No definitive answer from me here, as I hate the Apple upgrade process (actually I hate their security questions you need, like what was your favorite teachers first car) so I haven't upgraded to iOS7.

I will say that it is not uncommon for apps to stop working with an OS upgrade. Quite often some trivial piece of the app no longer gets or provides the correct format of information with the OS, and the app needs to be upgraded to the latest version. This may be what is happening with the Find My iPhone app. It need not have been disabled, merely broken by the upgrade.

Or maybe not... just another possibility to investigate before you panic.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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maxandsen ( member #37173) posted at 8:41 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

I just updated my phone to ISO7.

After update it asked if you to sign into your Apple account in order to use cloud and find my iPhone. It specifically say " in order to access find my iPhone". You can do this or hit next.

Your WH must have next-ed this step :(

(((Hugs)))

Tell him how this makes you feel.

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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 8:50 AM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

aesir: I hate this update, thankyou very much for the reply!

maxandsen: that clears a lot up for me. he came home to sleep for about an hour and when he left I asked him about it. He said when he updated it asked "something".

I do remember he was in a rush as for some reason his automatically updated when he put a charger in it. So that makes a lot more sense.

I feel bad for getting cranky at him, it's just that it was the happiest he had been in so long and now he's unhappy again. It feels cruel to see him happy because although I always tell myself it doesn't last long I guess I don't want to believe it.

Now he's unhappy and hasn't really spoken to me for two day now. *sigh*

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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TrulySad ( member #39652) posted at 4:35 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

My WBF updated to ios7 the day after it came out. He did it without us talking first, and I flipped out. It's new software essentially, and for us, that's a huge NO.

As soon as he got home that night, we both went over it. His find my iPhone was working fine, no need to activate it again. We even tested it. Not sure what happened with your WH's, but I know sometimes these apps change when you upgrade. My WBF's first text to me came through via his iCloud email acct. It made no sense, and all the rest showed his phone number instead. That scared me, but I'm chalking it up to it being sent as the phone was updating.

On a side note, we went through and set up the parental controls on it. He can't turn off the find my phone app now (I think). Also, it limits web sites he visits, among a few other features. It gives me a bit more peace now.

Me : no longer a BW or BGF. Starting over!

Them : in the past, where they can stay.

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rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 4:40 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

we both updated and I still have both my DD on "find friends."

hubby about threw a fit the last time I mentioned the app, even in passing about how DD and I use it. Will discuss in MC tonight as it really is not the app, it's the attitude.

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 summerain (original poster member #37439) posted at 5:15 PM on Tuesday, September 24th, 2013

I will look into setting up the findmyiphone again ASAP. Also didn't know about the parental controls. May have some fun with that

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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