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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 12
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, November 19th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Salted butter is in the red boxes, unsalted butter is in the fuck this stupid bullshit box. Just look at the box.

StillGoing on a Thanksgiving turkey prep thread.

You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, November 20th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't have a new quote, but I just had to comment on "whorebonker."


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

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Default  Posted: 1:36 AM, November 28th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: Speling mistacks

*Editing* his post in D/S.

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, November 28th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aesir in Recon:

Just remember marriage is a team sport.

That means that you win or lose together. Who got the best deal on their contract is not neccessarily the same as who is the MVP.

[This message edited by NoTriangles at 8:27 AM, November 28th (Wednesday)]

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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Default  Posted: 4:03 AM, December 10th (Monday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK in PurpleRoses thread "first kid exchange went south"

He can push your buttons with little effort because he installed the fuckers.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, December 13th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

exhaused lady, describing another poster's WS in General -
He's so far in the fog he looks like a character in a Stephen King novel.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, December 13th (Thursday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can very well tell you that I'm a piece of broccoli. But until I sprout some green curly hair and start tasting good in a stir fry I can assure you that I'm just full of shit.

serjr explaining the difference between talk and action, in d/s.

Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect

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Default  Posted: 12:17 PM, December 18th (Tuesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^ LIKE
That you were finally not full of shit.
Moo, following a post about a colonoscopy.

Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.

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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, December 19th (Wednesday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In 'Embracing the A' in R:

wert: I think the concept of "get back to our life" is just wrong. You never left your life.

Jrazz: Do I think anyone has to give the damn thing (i.e. the A) a hug? No way.

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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Default  Posted: 6:31 AM, December 22nd (Saturday), 2012View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now he's stuck with what was behind Door #3, the human equivalent of a tethered goat and a 2-year supply of Rice-a-Roni.

need_hope, in a thread in general describing how WH's choosing between the spouse and the OW is kind of like being on Lets Make a Deal.

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-Tom Petty

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Default  Posted: 7:28 PM, January 6th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Momentintime in Recon - regarding taking a WS back when the OP dumped the WS.

Don't make it easy, because they take easy and kill you with it.

Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, January 7th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Talk about fruity pebbles! Hopefully, they don't live here in California.

LineInTheSand @ SadInArizona regarding her Cheesy Nut Man and others on OnceinaLifetime's thread about online dating in NB

DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, January 9th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Make it a point not to sit near them in church--you know, to avoid the lightening.

Catwoman, in regards to a WS/AP who made "sacred" vows, their current vows notwithstanding.

Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Default  Posted: 2:34 AM, January 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A trustworthy partner doesn’t put themselves in compromising situations and demand you trust that they will know when to draw the line. A trustworthy partner does not frequently get caught in white lies and expect you to believe that they wouldn’t lie when it’s important. A trustworthy partner does not behave in a secretive manner under the guise of being private.

It’s hard to trust on the abstract at the beginning of a new relationship, but a trustworthy partner is actually very easy to trust. If you find your concerns are based on behavior rather than simply the idea of infidelity, it isn’t something you should ignore.

Crescita in a post in New Beginnings on Trusting again.

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, January 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bigger in JFO

Doing your own divorce… well it sounds a lot like buying a razor and then searching for appendectomy on youtube…


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, January 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A starving man would think cat food was pretty tasty, wouldn't he?

lieshurt in a NB thread on attraction.

DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52

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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, January 17th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Be A Cricket and Carry On

ajsmom in Separation/Divorce

love it!

Us: 50ish, madhatters, married 20 odd yrs
TT: May 2009 'til June
DDay for both: June 17, 2009
Me: 2x, same person, 1991
Him: 1.5 year PA (EA?) 2007-2009

Honey Badger don't care. - Randall

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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, January 20th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Self sabotage is a term that's bandied about a lot but I don't like it, it's loaded with negativity. There are often excellent reasons for doing the things we do and the trick is self understanding, not cultivating a fear that we are secretly working against ourselves.

InnerLight on New Beginnings

Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, January 22nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did she lose her shift/uppercase button when she threw away her integrity?

StrongButBroken in a reply to a thread in NB in which a member posted a whiny and illiterate text from his X.

Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens

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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, January 24th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now I look back and tell myself I must have been out of my rabbit ass mind to ever get involved with him.

Thanks for this one, TrustGone! I have learned the best phrases on SI. This one expands my repertoire which started with bat shit crazy.

Me: BS, 40's.

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