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User Topic: Does Googling OW count as a strike!
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Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a strike.
AP needs to have no part in his life.
Interest in OW is a bad sign: you are fully justified in your response.

Me BS (41)
Him WH (45). EA and possible PA (denied)
D Day 7/21/2013
M 8 years - filing for D

**The cruelest lies are often told in silence- Robert Louis Stevenson

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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You did the right thing. Not only did he break NC by Googling, but then he tried to hide the evidence. He got caught only because he wasn't thorough enough.

Reconciliation means that we both are authentic and vulnerable. I still have my H, and he's a better man than ever!

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Default  Posted: 1:57 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I an understand - after all that time, the AP is still on their minds, and they try to secretly Google them thinking that they won't be caught. Then when they get caught, it's just bullshit. Sounds like affair behavior to me, another violation of trust. Good for you for taking a stand. If you hadn't caught him, he never would of told you. Yep, sounds familiar.

Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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