I have heard of a solution where the kids stay put in the family home and the parents come and go week to week. I think you would have to have a lot of money behind you for this to occur to be able to pay for 3 households.

We did an in-home separation after d-day, and it was a living hell.

I remain his healthcare proxy (long complicated history, but I'm the best one for the role), so if he ever has a heart transplant (like anyone with a brain would allocate an organ to a trainwreck like him), I suppose he'll be back here during (what tends to be a rather rapid) convalescence.

But he'll be out as soon as the staples are. I'm DONE with him.