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Lola2kids posted 1/23/2014 06:52 AM

Wow, SBB, I'm so happy to read this.
I was under the impression that you were waiting for the sad clown to file after the 1 year waiting period.
It's done. Congrats.

Now go get that bull.

SBB posted 1/23/2014 14:37 PM

@Lola, I was waiting for him to file (let him do the running around and pay the $800 - its his fraud to complete, not mine!).

He sent me the doc to sign in October then sat on it for a month or two waiting for me to ask him about it for some big fat juicy ego kibbles. He got skinny crickets instead.

yestopants posted 1/23/2014 14:55 PM


rainagain posted 1/23/2014 15:51 PM


"skinny crickets"

need_hope posted 1/23/2014 15:53 PM

Congratulations. I'm glad this part is over for you.

Thefly559 posted 1/23/2014 17:31 PM

Congratulations to you sbb. You are so strong and inspirational to all. Enjoy your total freedom and new beginnings. All the best.

soveryweary posted 1/23/2014 17:57 PM

Congrats SBB!!!

Sparkles posted 1/24/2014 11:54 AM

Congratulations SBB!
...And thank you for all the support and wisdom you share with this site. I always enjoy reading your posts.

NewMom0220 posted 1/24/2014 12:57 PM

Yay! Congrats!

SBB posted 1/25/2014 04:49 AM

I'm thanking my lucky stars today that I don't suffer hangovers - I seem to sleep them off.

My freedom party was awesome and my speech was hilarious and brilliant (even if I do say so myself).

I thanked everyone there for the kind of support they gave me - support that I never knew I needed but I so did. I am grateful to every single one of them.

Those who ranted with me, cried with me, hugged me as I sobbed, rage walked with me, sat quietly with me in contemplation, spoke gentle words to me, said prayers for me even though I'm not a believer, roared at the moon with me, put me back into line when my white hot rage started besting me, patted my head to comfort me, spooned me during the darkest times, laughed so hard our stomachs and cheeks hurt, recommended beautiful books, songs, films and works of art to inspire me.

I am so unbelievably blessed to have this army beside me IRL and the SI army here too. So blessed.

I hope to god I never have to repay these kindnesses big and small but I am ready to do it in a heartbeat.

Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him.

Strong But Broken was my original name here. If I signed up today it would be Blessed and Free.... and Whiskey/Whisky proof.

SusanR posted 1/25/2014 06:20 AM


"Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him."


Thank you.

careerlady posted 1/25/2014 09:30 AM

I'm glad you're free and that you had a great time. You deserve it!

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