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Just Found Out

Your safe place to share your fears and pain with others experiencing the devastating discovery of infidelity and betrayal. We ask that only the Betrayed Spouse post in this forum as a newly hurting BS may not be ready to hear from a former Wayward Spouse OR Former Other Person.

  Finally found out about affair with colleague - 7/8/2025 6:32:05 AM - by leafields

General

Whether your relationship is suffering from infidelity or your needs are going unmet, post here and find the support you are seeking. Betrayed Spouse venting is to be expected and emotions may run high. Former wayward spouses and former other persons are asked to stay out of the Betrayed Spouse venting threads and respect their need to vent at THEIR situation.

  Feel like a failure if I do not reconcile - 7/8/2025 10:16:38 AM - by DRSOOLERS

Reconciliation

A wonderful place to share your struggles, success stories, and triggers while trying to reconcile. There is to be no name calling in this forum. Venting is to be limited to you and/or your partner. Please post respectfully and constructively keeping in mind the goal for this forum is to reconcile. It's a long road, but you can do it!

  Therapists and retraumatizing ... - 7/7/2025 6:09:34 PM - by OhItsYou

Wayward Side

A forum for all Former WS's who have ended or trying to end their affairs and are striving to reconcile. BS's are not to start threads asking questions of the WS's. Discussions about this forum, participating members, or topics contained are prohibited outside of this forum. Being disrespectful to this forum, members, or this description will result in your losing access without warning.

  Do most people consider watching porn as cheating? - 7/7/2025 8:41:04 PM - by Jambomo

I Can Relate

A forum for people to talk to others who have experienced the same unique situation and share their thoughts with each other. There will be no venting in this forum it is a place strictly for support and encouragement. Please feel free to join in any thread where you have personally experienced the same situation and you feel you can give comfort and hope.

  BS Questions for WS - Part 15 - 7/7/2025 5:00:51 PM - by hikingout

Divorce/Separation

A support group that focuses on what steps and emotions you will experience if divorce or separation is something you are facing.

  Ten Months Of In House Separation - Now This - 7/7/2025 10:40:40 PM - by leafields

New Beginnings

For those who are divorced or separated on the road to divorce and have reentered single life. Please feel free to share fears and concerns with others who are walking in your shoes or have been there in the past.

  Am I too touchy because of my past or is this cause for concern? - 6/26/2025 10:56:00 PM - by ItGetsBetter2025

Off Topic

A forum for discussing non infidelity related issues. News events (no politics or religion in keeping with guidelines), other off topic issues and inspirational posts go here. There should be no infidelity based venting.

  My daughter ran away and I’m so scared - 7/5/2025 5:10:20 PM - by Pippin

Investigative Tips (requires upgrade)

A forum to post your tips and ideas when trying to determine if your partner is cheating. This is not a professional forum for PI's, rather a place that members can share what helped them get the answers they were searching for.

The Book Club

This forum is dedicated for book discussions and reading recommendations. Please feel free to share your opinions and discuss current books on the reading list.

  Review: 'Same As It Always Was,' by Claire Lombardo (2024) - 6/26/2025 12:43:34 PM - by Shehawk

Fun & Games

Use this forum to talk about off topic subjects and fun exchanging between members. Offensive subjects and bad language will not be tolerated. We do know that you all need a place to release and have fun. We only ask that you're respectful of others while posting. Serious off topic posts requesting advice and prayers should be posted in the Off Topic forum.

  Song Title Game X - 7/8/2025 2:51:57 AM - by 78monte