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Edie posted 4/10/2019 12:41 PM
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Edie posted 4/23/2019 15:04 PM
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heartbroken_kk posted 4/27/2019 20:25 PM
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sisoon posted 11/15/2019 16:15 PM
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sisoon posted 1/9/2020 11:48 AM
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Edie posted 2/3/2020 14:49 PM
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sisoon posted 4/26/2020 12:51 PM
this thread shouldn't be forgotten....
sisoon posted 5/24/2020 09:38 AM
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getbusyliving posted 5/24/2020 20:17 PM
Thanks, I have been trying mindfulness but need a more active version. My ruminating has been wishing I hadn't been such a dummy and done more of all the things that are suggested here (found this site 2 - 2.5 years out of dd1 and dd2). So I ruminate about what I could have / should have done. I also then do still have extreme waves of hurt from the betrayal and think about it everyday. But at least it has no longer been all day for sometime. If I think about it, I allow myself some time and try and redirect my thoughts to that I did the best at the time, I trusted the person and am not a 'snoop' and respect other people's privacy. My WH cheating spans years but I only found out in one big hit so I also can ruminate about each one even though some were years ago (but not to me). Cooking, exercise and gardening examples are 3 good ones for me. Thank you. Will try this
BearlyBreathing posted 6/8/2020 22:21 PM
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sisoon posted 9/30/2020 12:13 PM
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Buffer posted 10/1/2020 06:30 AM
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