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Imissmyhusb posted 10/24/2014 09:12 AM

Is there a way to search for whether a person has a profile on sites like AM? Ive seen posts abt this but how do u find out?

Tina73 posted 10/24/2014 13:08 PM

Don't know. I believe AM is suppose to be discreet!? I hope someone can help you

Notthevictem posted 10/24/2014 13:35 PM

Get access to his e-mail, and do the forgot password thing

sad81712 posted 10/24/2014 17:42 PM

I made a fake AM account to see who was on it....But I have to warn you it made me sick to my stomach to see all those cheaters

Imissmyhusb posted 10/24/2014 21:03 PM

Good idea @notthevictem

I made a fake acct too but its hard to find his profile without the username. I only hav the emaill addr

BlueinStLou posted 10/24/2014 22:32 PM

I did both:

I used access to his email and did forgot password. I also set up a dummy account for me and used it to look in my area. You can search within a certain distance, age, etc, so if he was honest with that, you can find him.

Ditto on the prepare to be sick. There are many sickos on AM and all others. I got penis photos on my dummy AM account within minutes of it being set up, even with no photos or info.

thebighurt posted 10/24/2014 23:14 PM

Xpos had/has(?) a profile on AM and met women from there, but he also had one on another site that would make AM seem 'like a Cabbage Patch picnic', as he loved to say. It would make you throw up to see what was on the pages anyone could get to, but you need a membership to message anyone, and he got/gets(?) messages on that site too.

The 'Home page' leaves nothing to the imagination. Tells exactly what they want from you/can do for you, and pictures that show everything. I know his member name on that site.

I made a fake email account and signed up with little or no info and no pic. Like the others said, be prepared for disgusting messages and photos that will turn your stomach. I never went back on there and never read the messages, but just the subject lines of the emails that started appearing in my inbox were disgusting. Mind you, I did not give that for that purpose. It was just that there had to be one attached to the account. Somehow a bunch of perverts now have that email addy.

Feeldisposable posted 10/25/2014 08:59 AM

I did the fake profile thing on AM. I searched my area looking for WS. I didn't find him but did find one of the fathers from my son's Scout group. Now I have to see this cheating POS every week. I so wanted to confront him but didn't want to cause ds any embarrassment. Be prepared that you might recognise some of the pigs on there.

NewGirl posted 10/25/2014 20:04 PM

I'm sorry, what is AM?

Imissmyhusb posted 10/25/2014 20:23 PM

Ashley madison

Chicky posted 10/25/2014 20:44 PM

One of the lines on their homepage says "Married Dating has never been easier"

Imissmyhusb posted 10/25/2014 21:09 PM

Ok so the email says some woman chose his profile and wants to connect but i cant tell what site its from. It just says from 'hottest online dates' news@wikpoint.com. Wth?

NewGirl posted 10/26/2014 00:01 AM

omg... it's specifically for married people to cheat?@?@ wtf?@??!?!

Rubix posted 10/26/2014 06:41 AM

My SH gets similar emails. Some of them are scams. Have you typed it in google to see what comes up?

newgirl - yes. I found it digusting to, it's also advertised on TV and radio in certain places.

Imissmyhusb posted 10/26/2014 11:37 AM

My SH gets similar emails. Some of them are scams. Have you typed it in google to see what comes up?

I did. Nothg fruitful

ButterflyGirl posted 10/26/2014 13:55 PM

The Craigslist in my area is just as bad..

It is *so* fucking disgusting and sick. Like, SPECIFICALLY for people who want to LIE and MANIPULATE their spouse? Does NO ONE hold these assholes accountable?

A couple other people have mentioned being "affair fairies," where we go on dates with these whores/douchebags, just to save the betrayed spouses.. I could do that for a job..

But for your question, I think the source of someone's computer/phone/tablet/etc would be the best bet for finding out what sites they are on. If I were playing detective, I would try to figure out all the email addresses said target has.. Which I'm betting is more than a couple..

ETA: Figure out what apps have been downloaded and check all the histories.. All the dating sites I use when I'm single have an app.. And those messages don't show up on a phone bill. (Neither does the chat feature in games like WordFeud, the app my ex-douche used to take his Affair underground ).

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 1:58 PM, October 26th (Sunday)]

Ashland13 posted 10/26/2014 14:16 PM

Dont forget to chech out of town...x here didnt only stay local.

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