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ex and old friend
nofoollikean posted 11/17/2017 13:35 PM
I just found out that my scum sucking ex is interested in a woman I know. He has even let her know he knows me and another close friend of hers. She is likely to think this is a good recommendation. It's not. Should i contact her and let her know the truth of what she is likely to expect in terms of his lying, cheating, future betrayel. Unless, of course, by some miracle she is the one. Or, should i keep my mouth shut?Opinions? Advice?
JadedByItAll posted 11/17/2017 13:42 PM
By all means, tell her everything. I would. Wouldn't you have liked it if someone gave you a heads up before you got involved with him?
Dismayed2012 posted 11/17/2017 14:27 PM
I'd agree that warning her is what a friend would do but don't be surprised if she doesn't heed your advice. When someone is 'in love' or feels that 'connection' they tend not to listen to common sense. I think we can all attest to that.
MidnightRun posted 11/17/2017 21:48 PM
If she's a casual acquantice, no. If asked, just tell her it didn't work out. If she's considered a real friend, have at it.
nofoollikean posted 11/19/2017 10:40 AM
I did phone and leave message for my friend to call me about that and a more pressing matter, but she has not returned my call. I also decided only to tell her my experience if she wants to know and not to it in a vitriolic way. So far, no response. My real fear was that she would she him emailing her that he knew me and another friend as an endorsment. Now, i don't know what happened - if she saw my name as a ringing endorsement and accepted a date with him or not.Oh, well, i don't control the universe.