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My Detaching Guide

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bella444 posted 12/19/2018 08:50 AM

Appreciate the post, really needed it today.

sassylee posted 2/21/2019 06:35 AM

Bump

lettingo posted 2/21/2019 16:31 PM

Chili - thank you so much for this post. Good stuff! You are mighty!

lettingo posted 2/21/2019 16:31 PM

*** Duplicate!

[This message edited by lettingo at 4:32 PM, February 21st (Thursday)]

AMillionReasons63 posted 3/11/2019 02:55 AM

Bumping - I am so happy I stumbled across this post. I needed to read this. I’m sure someone else does too.

Thank you Chili - wherever you are!

Starzen posted 3/11/2019 07:42 AM

Great post Chili!

Chili posted 4/8/2019 22:12 PM

Bumpity for the bump request.

BearlyBreathing posted 6/14/2019 00:18 AM

Bump

Chili posted 7/25/2019 11:09 AM

Bumping for STLLOST

JerseyCowgirl posted 7/26/2019 05:46 AM

When I first found SI many many years ago this post of yours became my bible, my instruction manual. I know it will help others like it did me. Thank you again.

puffstuff posted 7/26/2019 06:15 AM

great post.

this made me lol, just so true and easy to miss when pining away for these shit heads:

"“What exactly is it that you bring to the party that would make me want to put up with this level of bullshit?”

puffstuff posted 7/26/2019 06:15 AM

great post.

this made me lol, just so true and easy to miss when pining away for these shit heads:

"“What exactly is it that you bring to the party that would make me want to put up with this level of bullshit?”

puffstuff posted 7/26/2019 06:16 AM

what is a 2 x 4?

puffstuff posted 7/26/2019 06:22 AM

Chili, i'd be fascinated to know how the AssClown is doing now? is he still with the AP?

puffstuff posted 7/26/2019 06:25 AM

one question i have that has really helped me detach, a question i roll over in my mind is:

just what is it i would be taking back?

it's a simple question but pondering it has helped me immensely.

gmc94 posted 7/26/2019 20:11 PM

“Remember cause and effect. He put in motion a series of events that had real world consequences. He didn’t respect you and he also doesn’t respect himself or the agreements you made. He is the only one who can change that by new choices to modify behaviors and thinking."
I just made this my phone screensaver.

SI Staff posted 11/28/2019 15:56 PM

Bump

heisasadcliche posted 11/28/2019 16:50 PM

Thanks. X

Phoenix1 posted 6/25/2020 17:06 PM

Bump

Outoflove2020 posted 6/25/2020 17:15 PM

I literally read this a few days ago and found it to be one of the most useful things I have read, so much so I was inspired to reach out directly to Chili and thank her. Could it be part of the healing library?

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