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Crushedaftertwen posted 12/6/2019 09:27 AM
My husband cheated thirteen years ago I just found out one year ago.It feels as it recently happen to me.is it possible to ever trust or love him the same as I did before.
cocoplus5nuts posted 12/6/2019 09:32 AM
is it possible to ever trust or love him the same as I did before.
No, I don't think so. It is possible to trust him again, but it won't be like it used to. Do you really want it to be like it was, full of lies and deceit? My guess is that you don't.
He has a lot of work ahead of him if he wants you to even consider trusting him again. Read the Healing Library. Read, How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. it's short. You can get it as a free, downloadable pdf.
Have him read it. It will outline for him what he needs to do. How he responds will tell you how to proceed.
zebra25 posted 12/6/2019 11:30 AM
I'm so sorry cheating has become a part of your marriage.
You've gotten some good advice from coco.
If your H works hard it is possible to trust him again and rebuild your marriage. The ball is in his court.