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Denial/lack of response from other betrayed spouse

peachmelba posted 1/11/2020 19:30 PM

Shortly after D-day, the AP sent WH a letter stating that she had "come clean" with her husband, but I've always doubted whether she had really told him the truth or if she just minimized the affair to a EA (which is the lie she told to several mutual friends). I later sent OBS a text where I laid it out in clear terms and offered to talk to compare notes if he wanted to. OBS never responded, but I didn't expect a response anyway, based on his personality. The shocking thing is that he tried include us in group activity recently. I was dumbfounded. When I asked if he got my text (in the group text) he said, "Yes, but..."

Friends have reported to me a extreme uptick of lovey-dovey happy family Facebook posts on both their accounts.

Anyone else get extremely in-denial responses from the OBS?

Thanksgiving2016 posted 1/11/2020 19:33 PM

OBS and his cheating wife rugswept the whole thing. They are happily married.

adriverswife posted 1/11/2020 19:36 PM

Yes. WS cheated with a good friend's wife. Good friend's wife took the offense when I found out, and told her husband that my WS had basically coerced her into cheating (ugh). To this day he denies that she really did anything wrong. It's sick.

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