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16forever (original poster member #37255) posted at 5:40 PM on Saturday, May 2nd, 2020
So I have asked for the divorce after multiple affairs one when me dad was dying there has been no change in him there is more info in sum of my other posts I don’t understand why Iam so upset all the time and cry and cry and I want him to hug me and tell me it will be alright and he will change and mend alll my hurts I know this will never happen I do I miss snuggles at nite idk if I just want someone to hold me and make me feel loved and wanted not that this would change my mind but he is not even fighting for me when he left me 8 yrs ago and asked for a divorce I fought hard so hard tell him every nite while he laid next to her I would tell him Iloveyou my prince plz come home and from him nothing just basically letting me go maybe to him I am not worth fighting for so with all this why is it tearing my apart why do I miss what I didn’t really have how does this hurt so bad
Me:40
Him:45
3 awesome kids and 2 grandsons
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 1:39 PM on Sunday, May 3rd, 2020
I am sorry you are having a rough time. Affairs are brutal. I think of them like a critical injury. The kind of accident that if it were physical you would be in the ICU for weeks and weeks. Yes, that bad.
That is why you are in so much pain. What have you tried to help you heal?
((((((16forever)))))))
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
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