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NC wins again

ashesofkali posted 5/4/2020 19:36 PM

"Hey dickface..." has become my standard opening line, for all the messages I compose but never send to my xWH. I got another pissy message from him today, about [insert stupid bullshit topic here]. I could respond, but I'm not going to, because I know it drives him nuts when he can't get a rise out of me. He's a serial cheater who checks all the boxes for NPD, and it just never stops with that guy. The more I ignore him, the harder he tries to get my attention. It's endlessly entertaining, to watch him unravel from a distance. Sometimes I start to feel guilty for enjoying it so much, but then I remember what he did to me and that's the end of it.
Wah. Poor little dickface.
Happy Monday, SI friends. Thanks for being here.

homewrecked2011 posted 5/4/2020 21:33 PM

It IS endlessly entertaining to watch them unravel.
I get a kick out of it, too, when I think of how he holds zero power over me!!!!

I also stay NC and try to be a grey rock so that he goes bye-bye. I know that he will cycle back around and try to hook me with something, but Iím not biting.

Good for you being so strong...

ashesofkali posted 5/4/2020 22:02 PM

@homewrecked2011
Indifference is the best, ain't it? Screw those guys. Grey rock is the way to go. :)

Decimated posted 5/5/2020 15:46 PM

Funny!

It's much more fun to ignore them. NC is the way to go.

Incidentally, my XWW is listed in my phone as "Cheating Lying Whore". So if she ever calls again, I will laugh and refuse the call.

ashesofkali posted 5/6/2020 15:37 PM

Incidentally, my XWW is listed in my phone as "Cheating Lying Whore". So if she ever calls again, I will laugh and refuse the call.

Decimated: LOLs! In my contacts, xWH is listed as "Dickface McCheater". I know it's childish, but it still makes me laugh.

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