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WarriorPrincess (original poster member #51806) posted at 9:22 PM on Sunday, July 19th, 2020
How can I prove he was involved with that chick so many years after the fact? I thought I had a copy of the NC letter he wrote to her, but I think I tossed it a couple of years into R, now wanting the pain of finding it again.
Any other ideas?
Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest o' the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls, they wanna have fun....
(Cyndi Lauper)
Ratpicker ( member #57986) posted at 9:39 PM on Sunday, July 19th, 2020
What is your purpose for "proving" it? Is it for settling things in your own mind & heart? And I could certainly understand that issue!
If it were in the past, even with proof, many states won't let you use it for adultery grounds. Once you resume a marital relationship is it deemed forgiveness or it's equivalent. With that said, I was able to introduce evidence of old affair for two reasons - 1) he admitted to it in his deposition and 2) it showed a pattern with lots of evidence of the new OW affair.
You have to decide what you need for your own legal purposes and emotional healing.
Road of life is paved with dead squirrels who couldn't make a decision.
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