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Hey Guys,

We have quite a few good threads in here (and in other forums) that get bumped from time to time. I'm thinking that it might be better if we could have just one thread and post the links onto them so that we don't bury some of the other threads and they're all in one spot

I'm sure I've probably missed a few - if I have, feel free to post them.

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Why people cheat:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=329523

They always affair down:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=326449

20/20 Hindsight--What I wish I'd done:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=161389

Coping with life after dday:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=303084

Assorted Articles courtesy of UnicornSearcher:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=164576&AP=41&HL=912

How I as a BS contributed... and how WW did...:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=191768&HL=14400

Infidelity - The Funhouse Mirror of Fools - for BS's:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=159280

Fill in the Blanks:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=311895

Tactical Primer:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=235051

Communicating with a foggy spouse:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=255670

Boundary Setting:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=231851

Negotiation:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=246366

More on the "Fog":

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=261192

10 Tough Questions to Ask Yourself:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=196811

How to play "The Game" and win:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=266197

Rational Situational Analysis:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=280155

Understanding the 180:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=232785

The Two Most Powerful Words:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=291070

The Problem with the "Dear WS" Letter:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=295222

Why They Leave:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=206895

Will the Affair work out in the end?:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=267238

What does this mean?:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=275740

Crisis Management:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=319692

The Single Toughest Thing About Infidelity:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=327044

The Four Pillars of Reconciliation:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.net/forums.asp?tid=328962

Some hard truths:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=126844&HL=1246

Archetypes for infidelity:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=246103

Feeding the Shame Monster

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=324596

The Process of Self Delusion

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=286950

Compartmentalizing

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=276342

Some Insight Re: Reconciliation

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=241326

Post infidelity Stress disorder

http://74.125.47.132/search?q=cache:lj5L4VQBCxwJ:www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp%3Ftid%3D175680+post+infidelity+stress+disorder,&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us

[This message edited by SerJR at 6:43 PM, February 1st (Monday)]

Good idea, SerJr. I just bumped the Key Points in an Emotional Affair. Maybe that one could join the list, what do you think?

Edie

Edie, a while back aesir put up "Archetypes for infidelity" which goes through some of the different affair types - it already has that information (from the same article) as well as info on the other types

Aha, I've never see that one. Must read it.

Good idea, I have bumped several of your threads to newbies as I am afraid they may not be able to find them, but I also worry about others' posts moving down into oblivion.

Thanks this is very helpful. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed!

How do you get to a thread? Fairly new here

You have to copy the address and paste it in your address bar

Here are a few that I saved:

Feeding the Shame Monster

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=324596

The Process of Self Delusion http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=286950

Compartmentalizing

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=276342

bump

Is there one about Trickle Truth?

Something all BS's need to be aware of, that they may be facing more revealtions down the line, weeks, months or even years from now.

I've always liked this one, not sure it needs to go up top, but maybe it will help someone:

Some Insight Re: Reconciliation

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=241326

anytime i paste the link into the browser it take me to the main forum page

Bumping for newbies

@jimmy

Not sure what's happening then, I have no problems pasting the addresses in. As a workaround, note the "tid" (thread ID?) number in the links. Then just erase the "337630" part in the address on the page you are on now, and replace those numbers with the TID from the one that you want to view.

bumping for newbies.

I think it is time for a bump.

Post infidelity Stress disorder

http://74.125.47.132/search?q=cache:lj5L4VQBCxwJ:www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp%3Ftid%3D175680+post+infidelity+stress+disorder,&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us

Thanks guys - I just updated with the suggestions