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punkdagain (original poster member #29348) posted at 9:49 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
I am nervous about opening up about all of this to a stranger but I have to start somewhere. I still can't talk to WH about this- thought I could but scared of getting out of this protective cocoon of avoidance. I don't want to start feeling any hurt but I know it's unavoidable. WH was a total jackass to the kids yesterday and being nasty in general- calling me things in front of them again. 
married 11 years, together 14
#1 1998-99
#2 2007-08
#3 2010...
all POS lowlifes
not sure what I want anymore
needsomehelp14 ( member #28631) posted at 9:58 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
Open up - let it out, it can do nothing good for anyone tied up inside of you.
I spent years of swallowing emotions and keeping my thoughts to myself. All it did was lend to my wife looking for "something else" to feed her need. I am not suggesting that I was the cause of the Affair, but I do own a part of the less than perfect marriage.
Get it out - it really is OK, and honestly, it feels so good to be truly authentic now!
BS (44) Me
FWW (46) Her
FOM (45) Her Co-worker/My friend
8+ year A
Married 17 years
D-day 2-26-10
A ended 9/08
"When the game is over, I won't walk out the loser, and I know that I'll walk out of here again"
marrey ( member #22614) posted at 10:47 PM on Tuesday, September 7th, 2010
GO in and open the flood gates. I did and it seemed as i let it out I was able to get a different perspective on just mine. I will tell you, that at times I was very angry when I left. More so than I was when I went in, just cause I had to open up old wounds.
It was the best thing I could have done. I hope you get some help from it!
Me-BS-36
HIM-FWS-41
3 kids
Married 19 years/2gether 24
DD may 1st 2008
Ow36-couple was our best friend..
Time heals all wounds, but will never erase the pain.
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