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				    				 Missingmylove (original poster  member #29625)		posted at 5:35 PM on Thursday, September 16th, 2010	
			 
	Okay so H and I are seperated.  I want to work it out and he doesn't, been married almost 10 years and have 5 kids.  Looking for a book/books to help me through the process of our relationship.  Even if we don't get back together we have to work together for the kids. 
 
			 			BW (me)-32
WH-33
OW- 21, and multi online personal ads.
6 children
Angel baby "Christine" lost Oct 2010
Married 11 years
UPDATE:  New baby girl born 12/2011!!
 "Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try."		
	 	 			
				    				RiotGrrrl ( member #9046)		posted at 5:42 PM on Thursday, September 16th, 2010	
			 
	Hi, Missingmylove - sorry you find yourself here but this site has amazing people who are very helpful. 
 
 
	I suggest "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass. It helped me the most. I hope you can get your H to read it too. 
 
 
	I got mine at the library and checked it out like 3 times. 
 
 
	Best of luck - 
 
 
	RG 
 
			 			Me: BS (44)
Him: WS (45)
Married: Six years, D Day 11/8/05
Divorce final: Nov 06
Two amazing sons: 16 and 14		
	 	 			
				    				notasaint ( member #28465)		posted at 12:37 PM on Saturday, September 25th, 2010	
			 
	The Five Love Languages might help with your kids just to know their ways of communicating love. 
 
			 			Me - BW 36
Him - FWH 38 SLA (newlywednupset)
M < 1 year
D-days 8/2009 and 4/2010 TT to 10/2010
3 OW over the course of 2 years, all older, one married.
* My husband was in an open relationship from day one, he just failed to tell ME this.*		
	 	 
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