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Myheartstillhurt (original poster member #32430) posted at 3:04 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011
How to Rebuild & Affair Proof Your Marriage.. By Steven Solomon and Lorie Teagno.
Has anyone read it?
IC gave it to me yesterday and I read half the book already..
Some things I have not 100% agreed with, however, they break down the stages of marriages (which they call long term love realtionshiops, LTLR, which I kinda dont like because I sometimes find myself saying "long term affair")
I like the breakdown of the relationships so far. They also have divided affairs up in three catagories as to the "why"..
So far, so good. I will give an update when I finish it.
BS(me) 34
fWH 38 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010
ArialRose ( member #24735) posted at 3:32 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011
I just ordered this. Have not received it yet. Are there activities or assignments for the individual or couple?
ArialRose-BS
in our 40's
M 28 years, together 30 years
3 DSs (adult)
D-Day: 3/23/09, Major TT 2/10/10 5/24/10,10/30/10, & 12/12/10.
Inappropriate online conversations on my part- 10/2011
FOR FUCKS SAKE!
Myheartstillhurt (original poster member #32430) posted at 4:09 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011
Last night I got to "The emotional self exercise" portion on page 68. That is the first exercise I have come to.
The end of each chapter has a chapter review, which I don't bother to read, but that set up reminds me of study format.
They are talking about Self intimacy (ironically abbreviated SI), I just scanned the rest of the book and didn't see any actual assignments, but I could have missed them.
BS(me) 34
fWH 38 (Epicallyfailedu)
OW/xBFF of 28 years
Four girls under 11
DDay: 6/5/2010
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