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Getting the Love You Want - worth the read?

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 JanaGreen (original poster member #29341) posted at 5:11 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012

My EAP counselor suggested it. Is this worth the read? I've read so many relationship-help books that they are starting to run together in my mind.

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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 6:26 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012

It's the basis for Imago Therapy. You can find more about it here:

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=464376

I think it is definitely worth the read.

[This message edited by Fighting2Survive at 12:26 PM, August 8th (Wednesday)]

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

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InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 6:12 AM on Friday, August 17th, 2012

It's a good one. I've read it more than once.

BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!

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Crossbow ( member #15224) posted at 4:58 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

I've read it more than once also. I'd say definitely worth it!

DDay 7/4/07 found out about online/sexting EA with OM
DDay 7/25/07 found out about OW
In R

2 DSs, ages 11 & 9
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lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 3:30 PM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012

I think it is worth the read. It really helped us to think about how our FOO issues impacted our relationship, as well as articulate what we needed/wanted/expected in our relationship.

[This message edited by lost_in_toronto at 9:31 AM, September 1st (Saturday)]

Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.

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