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longroadahead22 (original poster member #37328) posted at 4:19 AM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
Tonight my wife said something that made me feel so little... "It's been 5 months tomorrow that I made you dump your girlfriend". Dear god how f*#ked up is that statement, from my W. damn I was so unhealthy and still am for the most part. Workin with IC/MC, working thru FOO issues, fighting thru depression, digging deep and rebuilding a better me. But that wouldn't have happened if 5 months ago my BS caught me in my A by finding ILY to the OW on my phone. Then TT the hell out of her for damn near 4 months! Main I've done just about everything wrong and yet she is still here. And each day is a blessing for me but torture for her! Sorry no real questions just shameful recap 
WS (Me): 26 y/o
BS (Her): 26 y/o (MandoBando)
Relationship: M for 4 years, a 20 month old son and a 8 month old son.
D-Day: 10/23/12
Working towards R...
Despite the fact that i am an ass hole, horrible father, and horrible husband; i LOVE and
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 4:23 AM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
What was your response to her?
cinnamongurl ( member #37879) posted at 4:27 AM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
Yes, what did you say to her?
(BBF, you picked the thought right from my brain!)
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
longroadahead22 (original poster member #37328) posted at 1:19 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
That I was sorry I ever wondered away from ER an that I'm committed to fixing myself and by extension fixing our relationship. That I was willing to fight for us and that I here for her if she wants to talk more, which she didn't. She rolled over in bed and didn't say anything more, but I hugged her and tried to show that I was there for her
WS (Me): 26 y/o
BS (Her): 26 y/o (MandoBando)
Relationship: M for 4 years, a 20 month old son and a 8 month old son.
D-Day: 10/23/12
Working towards R...
Despite the fact that i am an ass hole, horrible father, and horrible husband; i LOVE and
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 1:32 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2013
My BW wanted me to fight for her. I can still picture how she looked when she said it. Fighting for her did not look how I thought it would look, but it did make a difference.
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