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What is AP? I can't find it.

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 Sleepy312 (original poster member #38360) posted at 4:21 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

Sorry for the dumb question, but I'm having trouble with several abbreviations that I can't find in the healing library and on the "more abbreviations" thread. Thanks.

Me 46
Dh 44
Married 16...he forgot our anniversary a while ago among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 20 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother

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momdaughterwife ( member #32209) posted at 4:25 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

AP-affair partner. BS-betrayed spouse. WH/WW wayward husband or wife. FWH/FWW-former wayward husband or wife. TT-trickle truth. OW-other woman. OM-other man. STBXH(w)-soon to be ex husband or wife. KISA-Knight in Shining Armor. SAHM-Stay at home mom. EA-emotional affair. PA-physical affair. LTA-long term affair. ONS-one night stand. There are more...but that's all I can recall at the moment...

Me BS
Him WH
2 boys
We've all been through a lot. Our family seems to be thriving again. I pray that will continue.

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 Sleepy312 (original poster member #38360) posted at 4:37 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

thanks.I always read STXH as Starbucks, and I don't drink coffee.

Me 46
Dh 44
Married 16...he forgot our anniversary a while ago among other things. Every birthday, holdiay, whatever is forever ruined.

Together 20 years
Two great kids.

He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 5:24 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

And my own personal favorite, FAP- former affair partner. It's also defined by urban dictionary as a slang term for masturbation, so I love the double meaning there.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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WWMEH13 ( member #38722) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

Also, FOO - family of origin, and 2x4s were the ones I couldn't find. 2x4 is a reference to getting knocked up by the head with some sense. SA- Sex Addict

WW - 38
BH - 38
EA/PA - 8 months
Married 4 years together 7
2 Ddays, same AP last one in December 2012
NC - 2/1/2013
DS - 2 years old

Status - Divorcing

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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:19 PM on Monday, April 1st, 2013

I prefer ShitBox for STBX.

MOM..married other man

SOW...single other woman

MOW..married other woman..

And,of course,there are the nicknames given to the AP's...we have very creative people here at SI...

[This message edited by confused615 at 12:20 PM, April 1st (Monday)]

BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10



..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


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