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confused51 (original poster member #29269) posted at 8:07 PM on Thursday, April 11th, 2013
Went to take dd to work this morning and there was a problem with her car so I grabbed the spare key to ds's car (his was blocking mine). Get home to realize I didn't have a house key with me. Tried ringing bell to wake ds up. No good. My cell in house on charger. So I went to my parents house. They are out of town but I had their house key with me. Tried to call ds but still couldn't get him up. Anyway next to their phone to a call list. I grab the list and was looking at it. After my contact info. and my kid's cell numbers. There was Ex's name, current address, and his cell number. Why in the world would they have him and his contact info. listed? He is the rat bastard that cheated and left me and the kids for the skank.
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 8:32 PM on Thursday, April 11th, 2013
he's probably listed because he's the kid's dad, and if there's an emergency with the kids and you aren't available for whatever reason, they can try him... but i get it that it's offensive to think that even in an emergency they may try to get ahold of him
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 5:16 AM on Friday, April 12th, 2013
It's probably about the kids. He is still the father of their grandchildren. They have his contact info for an emergency. What happens if you have a car accident or something else horrible happens. They may one day need that info, hopefully they won't though.
ETA - I hate the fact that the homewrecker OW has my contact numbers, but understand that is about the children. She will need to contact me if there is an emergency with the x.
[This message edited by Bluebird26 at 11:20 PM, April 11th (Thursday)]
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