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hexed (original poster member #19258) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
My DS is quiet introverted person. He has an extremely kind hear. He's a poet/writer of sorts. I've often described him as very self contained.
He hasn't done a lot of dating. He fell hard for a girl last spring. She sort of strung him along in the friend zone for a while. Then decided she wanted to date him exclusively, then she wanted him to be exclusive but she didn't want it to apply to her.
He drew a line and said no. He doesn't have a lot of confidence when it comes to girls so I was surprised. He knows he deserves and should be treated better. Its just a HS heartbreak but I'm dang proud of him. It was very hard for him and she would've strung him a long as long as he put up with it.
I feel like not tolerating the non-sense from my X was a good example for him. I feel badly that he's hurting but I'm glad he knows better!
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 12:44 AM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
Yup! I have a nephew that stood up to his "I may want to date other people" girlfriend. I think my experience showed him that we all deserve better than that shit.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Happydays ( member #38681) posted at 2:04 AM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
Well done! I know of a coworker's son who's GF can't decide on whom to choose between. Poor fellow is being dragged on and on.
I'd say quit the race and throw away the "prize".
BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 10:12 AM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
He does deserve better... and how wonderful that he knows it and can stand up for himself to get it.
The right girl will come along, they are out there... I am raising 4 of them.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
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