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New Beginnings :
Pregnant and a Job Interview on Monday

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 BrighterFuture (original poster member #38914) posted at 4:51 AM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

The heartbreak is still so fresh. I was in school fulltime and my exfiance used to pay the bills. since he moved out, I had to drop some classes and start looking for a job. I want to give up but there's a little hope in me. I've cancelled interviews before but this coming interview is from a good company. I'm pregnant so of course I'm nervous whether I'll get it, and if I do, whether it'll look bad that I will be going for maternity leave soon after starting the job. This is a bold step for me. Wish me luck!

Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 6:34 AM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Good luck to you... let us know how it goes.

Hugs,

K

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Happydays ( member #38681) posted at 6:55 AM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

All the best!

BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.

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foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 10:18 AM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Good luck

Got my fingers crossed for you

Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 12:17 PM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Best of luck

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

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 BrighterFuture (original poster member #38914) posted at 12:44 PM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Thank you all.

Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

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inknots ( member #22132) posted at 6:12 PM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Good luck. I had a friend who was 5 months pregnant and got hired so hopefully you will work out the same!

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bbee ( member #17840) posted at 6:17 PM on Sunday, April 21st, 2013

Mucho mojo!

This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1

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 BrighterFuture (original poster member #38914) posted at 6:07 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

They ended up interviewing me for two jobs. Hoping I get either one. Thanks for the support.

Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!

"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.

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foreverempty ( member #34426) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

That's fab they interviewed you for two.

Fingers still crossed for your answer!

Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

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She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 6:29 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

If it is meant to be darlin, it will be! I found out I was pregnant with my daughter "literally" 2 days before I got the job offer for my current job! I was so excited and yet devastated at the same time! Or TERRIFIED might be a better word! I had to tell my boss around 12 weeks that I was preggo and I didn't know how....and remember being borderline in tears... but she was incredibly understanding! I only took the bare minimal amount of time...which was 6 weeks and all is well today!!!

GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!! EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT!!

"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12

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Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 6:49 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

Good luck!!!

Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie

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