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 gardenparty (original poster member #12050) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I have 4 weddings to attend this summer. Yup...4. Anyways I had a couple of simple silk dresses made and one is in a gold (yellow to bronze gold) colour. I cannot find shoes anywhere to match. I do however have a perfect pair of black shoes that I never wear. Has anybody ever had any experience with painting shoes? The shoes that I would like to paint are black, patent, pointy toe flats.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:05 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

My shoe guy used to carry shoe paint before he retired and closed down last year. I'm sure you can still find it online (and possibly in a larger craft store).

Here's an instructable that looks like it's got good info.

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:13 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I've never tried that before. Would patent even take the paint? Could you try the dye-able shoes?

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 4:15 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Nude colored shoes would work, too.

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summerain ( member #37439) posted at 5:56 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

could you possibly put a black ribbon around your waist (cinch) to have tie it in?

I know that on my side of the world black and gold pairing is quite fashionable as long as you accessorise it right. Mainly depends on how long the dress is :)

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:47 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Would you be painting them the same color as the dress? I thought that was a fashion no-no...?

I agree with accessorizing in black - belt, big dangly earrings or necklace (depending on the neckline of the dress) and the shoes. Add a shoe clip if they're too dark or plain.

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PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 4:38 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I'm on the nude shoe side, too -

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KeepCalm_CarryOn ( member #33374) posted at 4:50 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Why not just leave them black? Black and yellow/gold are beautiful together!

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notmeanymore ( member #9772) posted at 5:51 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I seriously doubt you could get any kind of paint to adhere to patent. Even if it looked good initially, I don't think it would be durable and a couple scuffs here and there would lead to some really odd looking shoes.

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PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 5:53 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

How about these, or similar?

http://www.amazon.com/Nine-West-Womens-Boogiedown-Pump/dp/B008J9ZZ2M/ref=pd_ys_sf_s_672123011_b3_4_p

eta: I am smitten with these shoes. There is now one less pair in stock, coincidently in my size. . .

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Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 6:54 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

Gold is a neutral. Wear whatever color you like with it and accessorize accordingly. I think it would look great with a nude pink, cobalt blue or a dark purple.

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Rebreather ( member #30817) posted at 8:55 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I would wear a strappy gold or bronze type sandal/heel.

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013

I painted a pair of shoes long ago. It really didn't turn out as hoped.

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 gardenparty (original poster member #12050) posted at 1:02 AM on Friday, April 26th, 2013

dammit, I was hoping it would be an easy thing. The dress is a gold brocade, Asian styling, with little bits of pewter in the binding and buttons. I was looking for a pair of shoes that were in the pewter range. Black does not look right with the dress unfortunately.

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PippaPeach6 ( member #37523) posted at 3:40 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013

Amazon.com to the rescue!

I love Nine West and their sizes are consistent. I rarely shop for shoes anywhere but there, now If you find a style you like, pull it up - it probably comes in other colors. And if you don't like them - free returns!

eta: they have all kinds of styles - Ann Klein, Ivanka Trump, Lauren, many designer names - but since I don't know their sizing but do know Nine West, that are my "go to" shoes -

[This message edited by PippaPeach6 at 1:11 PM, April 26th (Friday)]

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jennie160 ( member #29949) posted at 4:09 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013

If your just wanting to wear them a couple times (for the 4 wedding only), it might work. But after a few times of wear the paint will start to crack where the shoe bends.

I had a wedding last year that I needed a pair of silver shoes for. I didn't want to spend any money and had a pair of black patent heels I never wore. I wanted to make them a glittery silver so I lightly sanded them (so the paint would stick), painted them in a coat of white, then did a few coats of a mod podge fairy dust mix. Mine cracked after just one wear but I think that because my mod podge layer was so thick. Just paint probably wouldn't crack so quickly.

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