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SusanR (original poster member #29368) posted at 11:28 AM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
I really feel bad for the rest of both of our families. I get some benefit from the split but they get nothing but pain. Maybe, someday, WH will realize what he and the slut have really done, how many people were affected.
That was the reason I gave him a second chance. I just can't do it again but I'm sorry that innocent people will suffer.
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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:41 AM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
Try not to stay in this mindest for too long. It is not healthy.
Like any death there will be a time for mourning for everyone but then everyone moves out of it.
((SusanR))
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:01 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2013
The collateral damage to the families is horrible - it's one of the worst parts of all of this, and my XWH continues to justify it all in his head, and pretend he did nothing wrong. 
His mom and his sister, very nice people, struggle with attempting to maintain a relationship with him. His own daughter, 20, (my stepdaughter), still will not even discuss OW (his now wife) with him, and barely has a relationship with him. She called me yesterday, poor kid, he is such an idiot.
It used to upset me alot, but there isn't anything I can do about it, I just focus on my relationship with them now.
((Hugs))
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
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