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 stilltrying2025 (original poster member #39145) posted at 3:16 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

Okay, I have a message ready to go to the other ex-bf or BF, not sure. Should I send it? I think he should know the shit going on besides just me! Thoughts????

Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

posts: 184   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2013   ·   location: Minnesota
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 stilltrying2025 (original poster member #39145) posted at 3:20 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

Oops, I meant OW. Oops, my bad!

Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

posts: 184   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2013   ·   location: Minnesota
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haleyscomet ( member #38250) posted at 3:41 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

you want to notify the OW's boyfriend about what's going on between WH and OW -- correct?

and ur not sure if OW and her boyfriend are still together... i think you said your WH talks as tho OW boyfriend is out of the picture....

perhaps ur WH is the reason for the boyfriends departure?

perhaps he too did not appreciate the *ahem* friendship between your WH and his WGF

others here that have been around longer that would know better

me: bgf - 46
him: wwbf - 40
lived together 2-1/2 years
dday1 dec 16 2012 found texts
dday2 dec 29 2012 intercepted texts
dday3 feb 20 2013 found texts during false R
status: its over

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 stilltrying2025 (original poster member #39145) posted at 3:51 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

You are correct. They have 2 kids together so you'd think he'd care. Really close to sending the message anyways!

Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated

posts: 184   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2013   ·   location: Minnesota
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haleyscomet ( member #38250) posted at 4:12 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

oh i did not get that they had kids

just consider - if you tell him what you know he's likely to confront her and it will get back to your husband...

so if there is something you know - that you don't want WH to know you know right now - don't divulge that

me: bgf - 46
him: wwbf - 40
lived together 2-1/2 years
dday1 dec 16 2012 found texts
dday2 dec 29 2012 intercepted texts
dday3 feb 20 2013 found texts during false R
status: its over

posts: 68   ·   registered: Jan. 25th, 2013
id 6328553
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