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Faithful w/Love (original poster member #33128) posted at 2:23 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
Man this is hard but I can do this. First 24 hrs is the hardest.
I hate this but I can do this. He tossed me that quick and I need to remember that no matter what my heart says. NC NC NC.
I want to yell and scream but for what. It is over!
Just please be there SI. It will be the first weekend alone in a LONG time. Ill keep busy however.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:26 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
It is very difficult but with a good strategy you can pull through.
Been there, that's for sure...
Nothing wrong with yelling it out. Give yourself a set time to do it and then go do something else.
Exercise lots. Walk, ride, gym, yoga, whatever makes you feel good. Knock yourself out with endorphins and you'll sleep better.
Big hugs. You can do it!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
devistatedmom ( member #24961) posted at 10:25 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
You can do this!
DON'T take your phone from room to room with you.
DO turn the sound off on it.
Anytime you start to think about him, do 20 push ups, jump on the treadmill, take the dog for a walk, clean something!
Post here anytime you want instead!
You can do it!
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
nolight ( member #32785) posted at 10:49 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
It's hard but it's worth it so dont give in!! Thing about how hollow you would feel once contact had been made anyway...
We make our own fortunes and call them fate, and what better excuse to choose a path then to insist it's our destiny.
Sue1964 ( member #37057) posted at 5:55 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
It is so hard me and mine both having problems not texting each other but now the days apart are getting longer.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 5:59 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
(((Faith)))
You can do this. I believe in you. If you want to reach out to him, type what you want to say here instead.
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 6:14 AM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
Be the Little Engine That Could. I think I can! I think I can! And before you know it, an hour has gone by, then half the morning, then half the day...
You can do it!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:52 PM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
You CAN do this.
We will be here for you. Post here if you have the urge to contact him.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
sunshine226 ( member #38851) posted at 3:15 PM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
NC is tough sometimes, and other times, it might be hours when you realize you havent even thought about contact them
It CAN be done, I broke NC a few times, but i keep trying, I wont give up
Stay busy, do something, anything to take your attention away from making contact
Me-BS (44)
Him-WS (47)
DDay 1/1/2012, common law for 22 1/2 years when he began A in September 2011
Status: moving on without him
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:57 PM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
How are you doing, FwL? Sending you tons of strength.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 10:21 PM on Saturday, May 18th, 2013
Thinking of you, hoping you're able to find something to keep your mind busy and forward thinking to a new future.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
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