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Jayne Doe (original poster member #32664) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
I just got something forward to me from my attorney that came from asshat's attorney.
On it they had my birthday wrong!! Off by one day.
My whole marriage was like that.
He put that on our medical insurance. Everytime I went to the doctor I had to explain to them that my husband can't get my birthday right.
After 32 years he STILL Can't
get it right.
Goodbye & Good Riddance, Asshat!!
Everyday is a blank canvas, and only you hold the brush.
30y M traded in for a POM (pathetic Old Maid 46, 2 kids from different dads. never married)
S 11/11, D final 1/14.
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 8:38 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
Are we married to the same man? On draft number 1 of sep agreement, WH had told his L the wrong birthday (including year!) for DD.
Real winner, that one.
BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
tabitha95 ( member #22033) posted at 9:09 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
Child's name misspelled on one of our forms.
His lawyer's clerk was really inept though, so I'm not sure who thought it was an "e" not an "a".
BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).
Reality ( member #39077) posted at 9:25 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
The state forced my ex to provide healthcare for the kids through his job.
He got their birthdays wrong.
Granted, it's not like he ever really noticed their existence, but I had to laugh, standing at the pharmacy to get antibiotics for my daughter and be told I couldn't use the insurance cards - which were fought long and hard for - because he couldn't remember a freaking birthday.
Thankfully, the pharmacist knew me and called the insurance company and straightened it out. $75 dollar prescription down to $10.
Useless. Some of them are completely failing at any part of the "being human" experience.
Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 10:45 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
Amazing.
There's no chance this is a sabotage tactic, is there? to inconvience the BS?
My father used to do it, though and it drove my mother insane when he missed a birthday. 40 years and a divorce later, she remembers every one he forgot. Now, he doesn't miss a-one, but it's "the kids". The birthday she got a bicycle and scale were among the last. (snicker)
Ashland 13
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
-George Washington
Jayne Doe (original poster member #32664) posted at 11:20 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
There's no chance this is a sabotage tactic, is there? to inconvience the BS?
Oh no, not in this case. He really doesn't know. He doesn't know the kids either. 
Everyday is a blank canvas, and only you hold the brush.
30y M traded in for a POM (pathetic Old Maid 46, 2 kids from different dads. never married)
S 11/11, D final 1/14.
Strongmama ( member #33062) posted at 12:29 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Oh that's classic! Loser indeed, and good riddance selfish jerk! You deserve soooo much better!
My ex could never remember our daughter's birthday, and she still tells me he can't. In his defense he's been so occupied with his dick getting serviced by whores the last ten years of her life how could he be expected to remember something as trivial as his last child's birth date! Lol
You're not alone! He sounds like a real tool. 
Douchebagfree ( member #39267) posted at 1:23 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Mine got the wedding date wrong on the separation agreement and then had the nerve to text me and ask if I'd pay to have it redone. WTF!
Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 4:15 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
I was married to XWH#1 for 20+yrs. He never spelled my name right. He always left the "e" off the end. He decided he was father of the year during our D and wanted to fight me for custody of my DS8. He couldn't even get his birthday right on any of the paperwork. It had to be totally redone. He didn't work, had no insurance, and drew a small SSI check since in his 20's for a back injury that he claimed never got better. He could out work and out lift me, but chose not to work. Of course he couldn't be bothered to watch our son while I worked. I had to pay for day care until he started school. Then he turned into father of the year because he wanted child support and alimony from me. Yeah dumb ass that's happening. NOT!!!
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
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