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homewrecked2011 (original poster member #34678) posted at 2:50 AM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2013
I was thinking today how far I have come since DDAY. Thank you to all SI'ers.
I was so intimidated that I went to a counselor to ask if it is NORMAL for a H to ask his wife to blow kisses to other women in cars, if all husbands try to get their wives in bed w other women,is all men go to topless bars when their wives are pregnant, if I was allowed to take my children to counseling while separated from my wh.
List goes on.
Gees, how did I get that low?
Anyway, I finally realize I don't need XWH. He is a loser, and I am the winner in this D and new beginning!
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 2:53 AM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2013
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:13 AM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2013
(((((homewrecked))))) Yay!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, May 29th, 2013
It gradually just gets better and better - so happy for you homewrecked! 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
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