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fallingquickly (original poster member #36599) posted at 5:48 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
So far I'm doing ok but:
Tuesday real estate agent is coming to tell me what I have to have fixed before selling house
Wednesday is anniversary of DD#2 (the big one)
Wednesday afternoon contractor is coming to give me an estimate on repair that needs to be done to sell marital home
Friday is 27th wedding anniversary
I'm feeling strong right now. I just went through a bit of a slight depression but it didn't last. I hope the strength lasts through this week. I need some strong mojo.
[This message edited by fallingquickly at 11:49 PM, June 9th (Sunday)]
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
missmydogs ( member #36559) posted at 6:17 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Sending lots and lots of MOJO!!
Me 36
DS 16
DD 4
Divorced!
I've made a huge mistake - GOB
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 8:41 AM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
MOJO !
I hope it all goes well !
I hope you don't too many triggers and remember the days are only days that will be gone in 24 hrs. I did that for a long time. It's only 24 hrs. 
HUGS
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 3:20 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Huge transitions, it will be tough but you will be fine.
Focus on DOING. Doing the stuff that needs done to sell the place, decluttering and downsizing can be therapeutic.
Big hugs. Been there, done that.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 3:37 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
(((falling)))
Sending mojo and strength.
fallingquickly (original poster member #36599) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
Thank you! The mojo is appreciated. Whenever it gets weird I take deep breaths. Every other time I've moved or sold a house it was for WHs job or a move to his dream house. One time it was to my dream house that I got to build and design. We left that for his dream house. My choice. I wanted him to have his dream.
I've never moved for such a sad reason. 
Deep breaths!
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 10:16 PM on Monday, June 10th, 2013
continued strength headed your way!!
I like gma's advice. You can do this one day at a time.
(((falling)))
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
fallingquickly (original poster member #36599) posted at 9:59 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Ok. One event over. Lots to fix 
but it will show great once it's done.
Not looking forward to tomorrow but also not overly stressing. It's weird to think of where I was a year ago. So confused about WHs actions not seeming like those of a remorseful person, a person who wanted to be married, that I started looking for more info and then found oh so much. I was such an emotional wreck then. Worst time of my life.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
scotslass ( member #39204) posted at 3:54 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Today is a new day, tomorrow is the beginning of a lovely, brand new wonderful day. Embrace tomorrow!
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
fallingquickly (original poster member #36599) posted at 5:53 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
One more down. The contractor came to see the work that needs to be done. It's going to be a big bill. :(
Not sure when the quote will come.
Today is the day. DD#2 I should feel terrible and cry but I don't. I just feel sad that he threw all this away for random drunk sex and a LTA with a married coworker who dropped him when her husband found out. I thought we had the same values and priorities but we don't. I just don't see how unprotected sex with strangers can be the most important thing.
Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)
I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken
There came a point when it was too painful to love him, so I stopped.
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