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I promise, it does gets better.

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 libertyrocks (original poster member #38924) posted at 3:33 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

I'm 7 months out and today I drove to work (1 1/2 hours) and thought it doesn't hurt AS MUCH anymore...

Just wanted to share some insight. The SI vets here always tell me TIME will heal the wounds. And, it really does...As crazy and incredibly hurt as you are right now. I remember lying on my bed at my parents house with smeared mascara, a newborn and a toddler on each arm thinking this is the most incredible pain a human being can possibly endure. It hurts more than childbirth. Remember, we all feel your pain. Post and read, it helps tremendously. Good luck everyone on this journey of life.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 9:33 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.

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Exit Wounds ( member #32811) posted at 8:46 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

(((((libertyrocks))))) that was very sweet of you to write to our newbee's here

I wish you the best and lots of wonderful times ahead.

Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.

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Nailinmyforehead ( member #38427) posted at 9:12 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Thank you so much for the words of hope. 4 months here, and as it has gotten easier to deal with, it is nice to know that this is not "as good as it gets".

"Son, you've got the future- shining like a piece of gold, but I swear as we get closer- it looks more like a lump of coal"

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1Faith ( member #38975) posted at 9:32 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

Dear Liberty

You are on your way dear friend. You are on your way. Thanks for sharing.

Sending hugs your way.

Onward.

Sometimes my life feels like a test I didn't study for

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James518 ( new member #39497) posted at 9:57 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013

I hope so, because this is unbearable. Glad you are ding better.

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